In recent years, news that college students have been cheated has emerged one after another, and some have been cheated to death. Some college students fall into various usury traps such as naked loans and routine loans.
Behind the news, people can't help asking: What happened to the favored college students?
Is there something wrong with the IQ of college students now or is the liar too smart?
In my opinion, it is our social and educational system that deserves reflection.
In a mercenary society where "everything is for money", it is difficult to cultivate healthy and psychologically sound children.
If supplemented by the infinite doting of elders, the possibility of cultivating a large number of "giant babies" is greatly increased.
Giant babies are a group of children who don't grow up. Except for the big exam, their common sense of life and social knowledge are almost blank. As a result, I am at a loss when I encounter major events, and I am depressed when I am under pressure. Middle school students and college students who jump off buildings every year are not alone.
Why is this?
When the whole society is looking at money, teachers are no exception.
When the teacher's grades are linked to the enrollment rate, it is inevitable that children with poor learning will not be treated by teachers, or even regarded as enemies by teachers.
In order to make children pay attention to by teachers, parents often hear about giving gifts to teachers.
Enrolment rate is a strange indicator. A landscape after the college entrance examination every year is the middle school ranking. How much did Tsinghua Peking University admit, and how much did 2 1 1 985 admit?
Invest heavily in famous teachers and only recruit good students with high test scores. The routine of an ordinary middle school becoming a famous school is roughly like this.
High marks have become the only thing that parents care about.
As for children's conduct, mental health and so on have been ignored intentionally or unintentionally.
Parents are under greater pressure to read a book than their children.
Schools are divided into three, six and nine grades. And children are born unable to distinguish between high and low. Children in prestigious schools have developed a sense of superiority, while those who fail to pass the exam have sown the seeds of inferiority in their hearts.
Parents try their best to send their children to famous schools. Spend money to find all kinds of relationships, pay all kinds of money, and force children to attend all kinds of remedial classes.
How can children be selfish when they see all this?
Running remedial classes naturally becomes the only choice for teachers to get rich, and children sacrifice more than time.
Kong Old Master Q's old saying "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" has long been put aside.
"Don't let children lose at the starting line" is the idea of many parents.
I would like to ask, parents have different social resources, can the starting line be the same?
Can the starting line of children in Dashangou be the same as that in Beijing?
Since it's different, did you get any results before you started running?
Many schools like to show off how many big officials and rich people they have produced during their school celebrations. Besides learning to be Nuo Nuo-centric and mercenary, what impact will it have on children?
Teacher, preach and teach.
Traditional education has high requirements for teachers' character and knowledge. What is taught to children is benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith, and it is self-discipline, self-cultivation and perfection.
Rite, righteousness, honesty and shame are the four pillars of traditional cultural education. When the four pillars fall, the whole social order cannot be normal.
The ancients advocated paying equal attention to justice and benefit. If girls know how to be ashamed and then benefit, will there be a market for naked loans?
Students' poor repayment ability, but strong desire for consumption, coupled with lack of social knowledge, have become an important reason why criminals have repeatedly attacked college students.
People who break the law have existed since ancient times, and now they are particularly stubborn. Is it also because of the industrialization of the education system?