1. Seek dialogue and communication: try to have an open, frank and rational dialogue with your roommate. Communication is the key to solving problems. Express your own views and feelings and listen to others' opinions. Through dialogue, we can better understand each other's needs and expectations and find the same solution.
2. Find out the root of the problem: try to find out the specific problems that lead to tension and find solutions. It may be caused by different living habits, different values, or personality conflicts. Understanding the root cause of the problem helps to find the appropriate solution.
3. Respect and consideration: When dealing with relationship problems, respect and consideration are very important. Respect the personal space, privacy and habits of roommates and try to avoid disturbing them. At the same time, we should also consider the influence of our own behavior on our roommates, try to reduce noise and keep it clean and tidy.
4. Make * * the same rules: Make some * * the same rules and agreements with roommates to ensure that everyone can respect each other and get along well. These rules include hygiene, working hours, use of public facilities and so on. Make sure everyone has the opportunity to participate in the discussion and make suggestions.
5. Seek help from a neutral third party: If you can't solve the problem through direct communication, you can seek help from the dormitory administrator, counselor or student office. They can provide neutral advice and mediation to help solve relationship problems.
6. Adjust your attitude and behavior: Sometimes, improving relationships requires us to actively adjust our attitude and behavior. Try to be more tolerant, understanding and tolerant, and avoid emotional behavior and words. Interact with roommates in a positive way to promote a harmonious dormitory atmosphere.
7. Find your own space: If the relationship problem cannot be completely solved, you can consider finding a place to live in other places, such as other dormitories in the school and renting a house off campus. Finding your own space helps to relieve tension and stress.
It should be noted that it takes time and effort to improve the relationship, which may not completely solve the problem. If the situation seriously affects your study and life, you can consider seeking more help and advice from the relevant departments of the school or counselors.