When I got the offer from several hospitals in my junior year, I was secretly delighted, so I asked in a private letter: The first choice is the public hospital in our county, with no food, no living, no salary and one year's internship. The second choice is a private hospital with food, accommodation and wages. You can become a full member if you get a practicing certificate. There is a third option: go to a big hospital for further study. She knows very well that her education and career prospects are not valued in this society. The harsh academic qualifications of hospitals and the length of time restrictions have led most people to change careers.
I didn't make a choice for her. For a young man in his twenties, choice is often more important, but you need to try and make mistakes and accumulate experience in life to know whether you are suitable or not. You should fully love him.
? First, find the right position and maximize your potential.
We are always receiving other people's ideas and opinions, browsing all kinds of chicken soup for the soul, drinking a bowl and then paralyzing ourselves, but we still feel extremely anxious. Being in the system, I am eager for the restlessness outside the system. Being outside the system, I long for nine to five in the system. Brushing a circle of friends always laments where some people travel and where to travel freely. So-and-so baked delicious food again, and then always complained about tempting my stomach. So-and-so pays a lot, but doesn't even have a fraction of his salary. However, apart from complaining, nothing seems to be left and nothing has changed. In fact, the root of confusion and anxiety is that you don't know what you want to do, so when you start your career, you must be clear about your position and maximize your potential. Everyone has potential, and potential is talent. Most people think that talent is innate, which is just the tip of the iceberg. Your potential has not been discovered yet. Choosing a good platform can temporarily provide you with superior material conditions. But in the end, it is important to choose a platform that is conducive to personal growth in the long run according to your own positioning.
? ? Second, accumulate experience and improve self-professional practice ability.
Now that you have a position, you need to constantly explore and practice. After leaving the campus and entering the job, I found that I didn't understand a lot of things, and regretted that I had been watching plays and sleeping in class all my college life. As the old saying goes, "An armchair strategist is too shallow to know." In fact, every successful senior in the workplace comes from a junior, so you should show the fighting spirit of "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers" and dare to try. Dare to challenge. For example: "A young lady in her twenties came, mainly suffering from abdominal pain. She said that the pain was severe and she needed to be given an analgesic injection immediately (the content is complicated and involves professional knowledge, so I won't go into details)". Most people will be caught off guard when they encounter such an emergency. This is the usual accumulation. We often encounter such problems, which requires us to have solid clinical knowledge and experience, but you are thinking that I just graduated and can't do anything, which is inevitable, but the key is to have a heart for knowledge. You must want to know what is the cause of this lady's abdominal pain, what examination is needed, what diseases need to be identified, what to do, what complications are there, and so on. This requires more thinking through clinical cases. If the pain is relieved at the beginning according to the requirements of the lady, if the visceral bleeding in the abdominal cavity covers up the condition, the consequences of delaying treatment will be vulnerable. Some lawless elements once helped a male patient to enter the hospital. The patient is in a coma. Others said that his abdominal pain was severe, and they urged painkillers to relieve the pain. The doctor wanted to know the condition and have a check-up, but he was strongly opposed. Finally, the patient died and the doctor was held accountable. Seeing this, you must feel that the doctor is irresponsible. However, when the male patient came, he was already dead. Criminals just want to claim compensation from the hospital. Therefore, in doing anything, we must be cautious, beware of procrastination, constantly accumulate experience, improve our professional practice ability, and don't violate our own principles and go beyond the moral bottom line. Many times we can't be perfect, but we try to be perfect.
? Third, extensively dabble in and build a self-thinking model.
? In constant learning and trial and error in life, we should take the essence and discard the dross. In fact, it is a "T" on the career path. As you dig deeper and deeper in the vertical line, at least you can find the ability to support yourself. However, a certain discipline has its limitations. Being in limited knowledge for a long time will make your thinking short-sighted. For example, compare a villager who has lived in the depths of the mountains for a long time to a doctor of medicine who has returned from studying abroad. The comparability between the two is obvious. Everyone has his own in-depth view of knowledge. The villagers said, I know whether this land is good or not, whether it is suitable for planting crops, when to sow and when to harvest. Doctors are talking about the current international medical professional knowledge and the scientific research progress in Kan Kan, and their ideological realm and values are not at the same level. But why should I make a comparison? Unfortunately, the doctor of medicine was separated from his teammates on a hiking trip, and all the appliances he carried with him were dead, and there was little dry food left. Fortunately, I met the residents of this mountain, and the villagers expressed their heartfelt thanks for the gift of nature. We are all people of nature, working at sunrise and resting at sunset, following the laws of nature. After a sumptuous meal, the doctor was surprised to find that most villagers' necks were swollen, and they didn't get systematic treatment after asking. After some dabbling, the doctor finally solved the villagers' problems, and at the same time obtained more in-depth research results, which were published in scientific research results, and the villagers also had a deeper understanding of this. The so-called success comes from the discovery of various details in life. You have been in contact with a platform for a long time, which is bound to be short-lived. I often dabble in fragmented information, but when I need it, I can't remember any of them, only to find that all the knowledge I dabble in is points. How to turn a point into a line needs to establish your own thinking mode.
? ? Fourth, overcome loneliness and adapt to the living environment.
How many people have boasted that one day they will stand on the top of the world and be a person who changes the world. However, we are only the majority of people, and it is impossible to "give me a lever and I will tilt an earth" like Archimedes. But you have to have confidence to tilt the earth. When I used to play WeChat circle of friends, I kept brushing my circle of friends all day, sending a talk, waiting for others to praise you, comment on you, reply to you, reply again, and so on. You always expect someone to send you something from time to time, but after reading it many times, you find that no one is looking for you. There is a saying: "Thank you for having WeChat business in your circle of friends, because it supports almost all your circle of friends". I began to think about this meaningless idea. I used to be afraid of being alone and being lonely. But when I closed my circle of friends for more than a month, I didn't seem to love it that much. In retrospect, the release information of WeChat business is still full, and I spent more time on my professional knowledge improvement, fitness and reading. I am no longer anxious and lonely. I began to go to bed early and get up early. I started to get up early with a glass of water, drink more water every day, and pay attention to weight change and diet. It turns out that loneliness is not terrible. Learn to correct your mentality. The success of others can't be copied, but you can follow suit and practice and find a path that suits you. When I began to adapt to my living environment, I found beautiful scenery everywhere.
? Five, workplace rules, do not participate or complain.
Entering a new environment, the deeper you go, the more you find that the workplace is not as simple as campus. Some people care about the gains and losses of their own interests, some people want to control the political power, some people think that things have nothing to do with themselves, and some people fall on both sides. But this is only a minority, and most of them are loyal to their jobs and duties. Therefore, as a newcomer to the workplace, don't complain that you can only run errands often. If you can meet a life coach who changes your life, you naturally need a more positive attitude instead of listening to your complaints every day.
? Sixth, persevere, so as to achieve your ultimate goal, don't forget your initiative.
Memorizing words, losing weight, writing, reading, traveling, photography and many other seemingly positive energy projects failed to persist. I just love which plays are popular today, which stars and what happened. It seems that none of the set goals can last more than three months. In retrospect, I dreamed all the time. Parents always say, "When you were young, you just thought too much and did too little. Finally, you lost sesame seeds with watermelon, but you didn't catch sesame seeds. You hit your head and did nothing. " Therefore, we should not be so self-indulgent. We should make our goals clear, simple and persistent. Don't forget your innovative spirit, so as to achieve your ultimate goal.
In fact, life is a process of trial and error. We don't know what love is, only when we have loved it. On the road of life, you can gain by giving up, and you are not afraid of failure. You can sum up your experience in every mistake and persevere to achieve your ultimate goal.