Many girls find it difficult to take off their bills because of their mentality. One is that the love mentality is too Buddha and does not take the initiative to contact the opposite sex. For boys who pursue them not to call, they also take a reluctant attitude and resolutely refuse. If you want to know yourself, don't get into trouble in contact with the opposite sex, and don't think that initiative is a purposeful thing.

2, change the image:

The external image will determine whether the other party wants to associate with you at the first time. So it is important to change the external image. You can change your hair style and dress up, buy some fashion magazines, and choose whether to dress in Europe, America, South Korea or Japan according to your suitable dressing style. After determining a style, try not to change. This is also a way to form your own style.

3. Enhance value:

Appearance can only attract each other for a short time. If you want to get along for a long time, you must build value attraction from your heart. Only by improving your own value from these three aspects can you attract the other party to associate with you more.

4. Know how to take the initiative to attack:

When you meet a boy you like, you should take the initiative. It's not the same as waiting for someone to chase you. In fact, it is easier for a woman to chase a man, just like being separated by a layer of gauze. As long as you pursue bravely, the chances of success may be high.

5, constantly improve their own connotation:

Women need to strive to improve themselves, not only to enhance their external image, but also to enhance their connotation, so as to achieve both internal and external training and enhance their personal charm. Women will be more attractive when they reach a certain age. If they continue to study and improve themselves, they will be more attractive and their chances of getting rid of orders will increase accordingly.