1. Define the standard of love. College students should put their consistent thoughts, trust and pursuit of * * * in the first place of love standards, and take kindness, reason and responsibility as important criteria for choosing a spouse. Therefore, in the choice of lovers, the most important criterion should be like-minded. As we all know, it is precisely because the love between Marx and Yan Ni is based on like-minded, that their love has withstood all kinds of difficulties and hardships, and has been passed down as a much-told story by later generations. As the successors of the socialist cause of the motherland, the love view of contemporary college students should be an organic combination of ideals, morality, responsibility, obligation and career to meet the needs of the times.

2. Be responsible. Many college students experience love with the mentality of "only wanting to have it once, not wanting to last forever". But as it turns out, love is a kind of responsibility, which requires the other party to have a strong sense of responsibility. Only by treating each other sincerely and living in harmony can we ensure the continuous development of love relationship in a positive and healthy direction.

3. Be tolerant. Love is a double-edged sword, which can not only bring people a happy experience, but also cause a lot of harm. If two lovers can't take care of each other in an inclusive manner, once there is a contradiction, it will not only be difficult to solve the problem effectively, but also come from all directions. Here, of course, Gewei is a popular program in people's minds, but various activities, such as lion dance, dragon dance, performance, chicken and bird fighting, business and other activities also appear in black and pink, which not only increases the atmosphere of Gewei, but also makes people feel happy.

6. The university stage is the golden age of studying and the key period of career success, but it is not the best time to solve lifelong events. In the face of emotional impulse and love desire, we should be good at grasping the emotional sail with reason, correctly handle the relationship between love and study, establish a correct view of love, and strive to cultivate our love ability. Only in this way can we finally sail our love boat to the other side of success and happiness.

7. The process of love must meet the corresponding moral requirements, and the premise of love is that both parties are equal and respect each other; When choosing a lover, we should pay attention to the moral quality of the other person. In the process of love, we should teach each other, help each other, treat each other sincerely, be pure and single-minded; Love behavior should be implicit and civilized, with self-respect and self-love.

8. The university stage is the golden age of studying and the key period of career success, but it is not the best time to solve lifelong events. In the face of emotional impulse and love desire, we should be good at grasping the emotional sail with reason, correctly handle the relationship between love and study, establish a correct view of love, and strive to cultivate our love ability. Only in this way can we finally sail our love boat to the other side of success and happiness.

I hope everyone here can find their other half.