First, a boy fell in love with a girl in his class. He tries to express himself every day, giving gifts to girls, helping with things, cleaning and so on. But in the end, I found out that the girl didn't really feel anything for him, and she didn't even like him being clingy. The boy was very frustrated and sad, but he finally accepted the reality and became more confident and independent.
Another boy had a crush on the same girl for many years, and high school began to pursue it. Although he expressed his thoughts many times, and it seemed possible to be together at some moments, the girl finally chose someone else and told him that they had no future. The boys gave up their studies because of loss and sadness, and were silent for a long time.
The third case is about the love between two good friends. One of the boys and a girl have been good friends since childhood, but the boy found himself in love with this girl at some point. He spent a lot of time and thought to make himself better, and at the same time expressed his mind. But in the end, the girl chose someone else, which made the boy suffer a great blow and lost this good friend.
Through the above three cases, we can see that in the process of pursuing girls, we not only need to be honest with ourselves and each other, but also need to have the courage to face failure. Of course, the most important thing for success is to find someone who is willing to accept you. Because everyone has their own preferences and needs, we can't influence others' choices, so we can only be kind to ourselves and try our best to do everything well.