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After the first class that afternoon, I walked out of the classroom and walked to the office. Suddenly there was a sound of "ah" behind him, and then I heard Xiaoping's cry. I turned around and saw Xiaoping lying on the ground, blood constantly flowing from her forehead. I was so frightened that I quickly picked up Xiaoping and ran to the school hospital.
The school doctor examined Xiaoping's wound and made a simple disinfection and dressing. The school doctor suggested sending Xiaoping to the hospital for suture immediately. I contacted Xiaoping's mother and sent Xiaoping to the hospital with her. Because Xiaoping's forehead wound is wide, the doctor immediately sewed a needle for her. After the treatment, Xiaoping went home with his mother and I went back to school.
After investigation, I learned that Xiaoping went to the bathroom after class. Xiaojiang ran to the bathroom like a gust of wind as soon as he got out of the classroom because of his internal urgency, and accidentally bumped into Xiaoping who was walking in front. Xiaoping lost his center of gravity, stumbled to the ground and broke his forehead.
That night, I contacted Xiaojiang's father and told him what happened in the afternoon. Hearing this, he said that he must visit the injured Xiaoping.
The next day, my father bought some gifts in Xiaojiang and went to Xiaoping's house. Xiao Jiang's father apologized to Xiaoping's parents for his reckless behavior. But Xiaoping's parents were indifferent to our arrival, which was completely different from the situation when I visited my relatives in the past. My father is in Xiaojiang, and he is standing there awkwardly. They kept nagging, "Xiaoping's forehead will leave a permanent scar, and even finding her husband's family will be a problem when she grows up." Seeing this, Jiang's father took out 500 yuan's money and said it was to buy some nourishment for Xiaoping. But Xiaoping's parents refused, saying that they would wait until later. Helpless, we had to leave first.
On the way back, Xiao Jiang's father said the situation was not good. Sure enough, Xiaoping's parents came to me and demanded compensation of 2,000 yuan for nutrition, 3,000 yuan for mental damage compensation and 5,000 yuan for medical expenses, totaling 10000 yuan, and asked me to tell Xiaojiang's father. Faced with these demands of Xiaoping's parents, I am a little at a loss. This is my teacher's first time in several years, and I was speechless for a while. But things have to be solved after all, so I had to bite the bullet and tell Xiaojiang's father these requirements. Xiao Jiang's father flew into a rage after listening to my words, claiming that what is the difference between such a lion's mouth and extortion? Before I finished, I hung up the phone angrily.
In fact, I knew in my heart that Xiao Jiang didn't knock Xiaoping down on purpose. Xiaoping is just a skin injury, and it is a bit excessive for Xiaoping's parents to ask for compensation 1 10,000 yuan. But at this point, I can only take it one step at a time and expect things to turn around.
Next, Xiaoping's mother came to me every three days, threatening to lose money or restore Xiaoping's forehead. After a while, I was so upset that I didn't want to eat or drink. There is really no way, so Xiaojiang He's father has to discuss this matter many times. Through my earnest persuasion, Xiaojiang's father finally agreed to give 1000 yuan as a consolation money, and said that he would not give it again. Xiao Jiang's father's road has been blocked, and I began to work as Xiaoping's parents again. However, Xiaoping's parents will never give in. Xiaoping's parents in Xiaojiang River are deadlocked, and my negotiation work is also stagnant.
Since then, Xiaoping's mother has come to see me one after another. I have no choice but to give her both hard and soft. Seeing that two months have passed, the problem has not been solved. Finally, Xiaoping's parents couldn't bear it, so they had to give in and compromise, and a storm finally subsided.
It has been several years since this happened. In retrospect, I always feel ashamed and ashamed. As a teacher, I am unfamiliar with laws and regulations, so that I am as helpless as a headless fly when encountering such problems. I don't know how to take up legal weapons and reasonably solve disputes, but I take it for granted that I face the problem of students' campus injuries with a negative attitude, thus putting myself among students' parents and falling into an infinite embarrassing situation. To this end, in today's increasingly sound laws and regulations on students' safety, parents and students' growing awareness of rights protection, I call on teachers to be more familiar with laws and regulations, because only in this way can the legitimate rights and interests of students, parents and teachers be effectively protected, which is the need of administering education according to law and the premise of creating a harmonious campus.
(Chen, Fujian Quanzhou South Shaolin Wushu School)
Teachers should also learn to protect themselves.
It should be said that no one can avoid such an emergency at school, but since things have already appeared, they should be properly solved. The teacher in the incident is a very responsible teacher. After the incident, he can take rescue measures quickly and then inform both parents quickly. This is worth learning by every educator.
However, things are not that simple. She met unreasonable parents, and he seemed a little weak in front of such parents, so that Xiaoping's parents could be so arrogant. The teacher's failure to take up legal weapons is somewhat out of keeping with our times. It's true that we don't want to make a big deal out of things, but now that it's like this, blind compromise and forbearance can only encourage each other's arrogance. Since she is unreasonable, she should resort to the law. In this way, the teacher will not be so embarrassed and humiliated.
It should be said that the child was injured at school. As parents, it is understandable to feel a little distressed and talk about something. This also reflects the love of parents for their children. Maybe such a small injury will really have a great impact on the child. We are both parents, so I understand this parent very well. However, things should also be analyzed dialectically. After all, people's children didn't mean it, so they all came to apologize and offered some solatium, which shows their sincerity. At this time, parents who are victims should think carefully. They are all children. What will happen to yourself if your child hurts others? Perhaps the most important thing at this time is to be able to put yourself in the other person's shoes, and things may be solved well.
If this happens to me, I will adjust like that teacher at first. If the adjustment fails, I will immediately resort to the law and ask the law to give the other party a satisfactory answer. After all, teachers and parents don't want this to happen. Both children are innocent. The child who hits people won't take much responsibility because he didn't mean to. Once the law is involved, maybe Xiaoping's parents will not be so arrogant. Our society is a legal society, parents and children will defend their rights, but why can't our teachers? It is the duty of every teacher to educate and take care of children, but sometimes we will be misunderstood when expressing our love, so we should learn to protect ourselves. Pick up the legal weapons in our hands and fight against some unreasonable things, then we can be people's teachers in the new era. Because this is not only the need of managing education according to law, but also the premise of creating a harmonious campus.
(Li Yanhui, Desheng No.2 Middle School, Qinggang County)
Reply to an unexpected "glasses storm"
I understand the feelings of my former teacher Chen, because I have encountered similar incidents in the course of my work.
One morning, I walked into the classroom and was preparing for class. I saw the head teacher of Grade One (1) standing at the door of my class and nodding at me, next to a girl. Intuitively, I feel something is wrong. According to the head teacher of Grade One (1), two students in my class bumped into a girl in Grade One (1) because of a fight between classes, breaking her glasses and nose. As soon as you listen, you are out of breath. The focus of the school's work this week is to check the development of student activities in each class. I gave a strong sermon at the class meeting and warned me not to chase and fight. I didn't expect this to happen the next day.
So I asked the little girl to identify the "perpetrators" in my class, and she immediately identified Xiaohui and Xiaoshun in our class. I criticized the two students first and took half a class in the class. The students are afraid to go out. I also screamed at the top of my lungs because of a rage.
After school at noon, I told Xiaohui's parents what happened and asked her to go to school in the afternoon to negotiate with the girl's parents to solve the problem. At noon, I called Xiaoshun's parents again, but no one answered, so I had to let Xiaoshun go home and tell his parents at night.
After school in the afternoon, I invited the girl's parents and Xiaohui's parents to school. The girl's parents pointed to the scar on the child's nose and told the child's innocence. Although the redness on the girl's nose has subsided a lot, it still hurts to see it. I stood by and echoed. At that time, I thought to myself, if this happened in the countryside, the parents of the perpetrators would definitely buy some fruits and other nutrients to show comfort, while Xiaohui's parents seemed to be ignorant of the world and stood by empty-handed. I feel really bad in my heart and feel uncomfortable all over.
At this time, the girl's parents took out the glasses from their bags and told them how they spent 468 yuan. It took them a long time to go to several optical shops to match them. She also handed me the glasses receipt. The receipt clearly States the time and quantity of glasses. The responsibility has been made clear, but the question is how to compensate. According to my experience in dealing with this matter, I tried to say from the perspective of sympathy for the weak: "The child's glasses were broken, and the frame also broke his nose." How do you discuss this matter? "
Xiaohui's parents said, "My child hit your child, but Xiaoshun didn't chase Xiaohui, and my child won't hit her. If there is responsibility, my child will bear most of the responsibility, and Xiaoshun will also bear part of the responsibility. I can only pay part of it. "
"Is your child directly hit my child. I can only ask you for compensation. " Seeing that the girl's parents were unhappy, I quickly took it over and said, "Xiaoshun's parents, I didn't get in touch in time." I have asked Xiaoshun to tell his parents about it. His parents will come tomorrow. What's your attitude towards this matter now? "
"Then I have to look at Xiaoshun's parents' attitude before I can decide." Xiaohui's parents said.
The girl's parents saw this scene and thought for a moment: "Let's do this. I think the child is just a skin injury, nothing serious. You can either get me a pair of glasses at the designated optical shop, or give me 450 yuan money to get them yourself. My child can't study without glasses. "
Seeing Xiaohui's parents still hesitating, I blurted out: "It is the greatest luck that the child has no accident! This parent is too reasonable. As a class teacher, I am very moved. I will do the work of Xiaoshun's parents. If he is unwilling to bear the liability for compensation, I will compensate him. " As soon as the words came out, I regretted it a little. But another thought: this is also a punishment for lax management of my class. Xiaohui's parents were embarrassed when they heard what I said. I promise to let my parents wear their own glasses first, and I am willing to bear most of the liability for compensation.
The next day, the parents of the two perpetrators came to school. When I moved the chair out for Xiaoshun's mother, I didn't expect her to say, "Teacher, my child has no responsibility at all. What shall I say to him? " Another parent stood awkwardly and muttered, "How can you be irresponsible?" I held back my displeasure and said calmly, "I have an unshirkable responsibility for this matter, but my discipline and supervision are not in place." Fortunately, the girl was not hurt. Her parents are also very reasonable and have not made excessive demands. You don't have to worry, for fear that taking responsibility will lead to fire. To say the least, your child is involved in this matter, and he is partly responsible. If you really can't afford the money, I can bear the cost. "
Xiaoshun's mother listened to my words, and her heart probably moved, saying that she would call me back when she went back to discuss it with her husband. Xiaohui's parents also said that if the other party is unwilling to pay compensation, they are willing to pay all the losses on the premise of assuming most of the responsibilities.
On Thursday morning, I received a phone call from Xiaoshun's parents, saying that they were willing to bear the compensation from 150 yuan, and had asked the children to bring the money. I met Xiaohui's parents after school at noon, and he paid the remaining 300 yuan very readily.
Reflective experience:
1. Some students are naturally active. In recess activities, there will inevitably be some collisions with each other. So as a class teacher, we should be careful, any negligence may lead to bad consequences. When an accident happens, anger and anger are of no help. Only by being calm, analyzing and thinking can we have room for manoeuvre and find the best solution to deal with things.
In the process of dealing with this kind of matter, we should adhere to the principle that there is no right to speak without investigation, always adopt the method of convincing people with reason and controlling people with emotion, put ourselves in the other's shoes, and never shirk the responsibility, so as to solve the matter satisfactorily.
Of course, my handling of this matter is irrational, and my performance in class is also very inappropriate. I shouldn't take it out on the students. You can't reprimand the students who caused the accident, let alone take it out on other innocent students. So when things happen, you might as well "cold treat".
(Geng Changfu, Shi Ye Middle School, Dantu District, Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province)
Reply 3: Why?
First of all, we should understand the feelings of the parents who were knocked down by their children, one child at a time, not to mention that the children fell down when sewing their foreheads, and the parents would be distressed to death. The parents of the students who beat people, he did everything that should be done, and can be said to be a reasonable person. If he can meet such parents as teachers, he can be said to be lucky. So who is wrong with this matter, which has caused such frequent incidents on campus to delay?
I think the teacher is ambiguous. Although at the end of the article, the teacher also said that legal means should be used, in fact, this matter is not that complicated. If this matter is solved by legal means, then this matter will definitely escalate. Campus events, such as trampling and equipment wounding, occur at any time in any country. It can be said that this is a common occurrence on campus.
What happened and how did the teacher handle it? Just contact your parents and go to the hospital quickly. The problem is that the teacher simply regards this as a matter between two parents. Objectively speaking, there is really no teacher's responsibility here. Any school has a rule against running and jumping in the building, which has been repeatedly emphasized by any teacher. However, if the teacher can quickly clarify his responsibilities at this time, such as whether the running child is in a hurry, there must be some responsibility for running the building. Did the child who was hit go to the side? Should we have a sense of self-protection? Finally, if teachers dare to take responsibility, dare to review their negligence in their work in front of both parents, say that they have not taken good care of their children, and apologize to both students and parents, I think parents of students will probably not feel so lost. And out of affection for the teacher, any student's parents can give the teacher this face. Just like Mr. Chen in the article, when he found that his parents had pulled himself out of things, there was nowhere to release his emotions and grievances. Therefore, the above practice of Jiangsu Geng teacher in dealing with a glasses storm is personally recognized. After all, children still have to get along with teachers day and night.
On the surface, the teacher in the incident didn't take any responsibility, but in fact, I'm afraid he already has more psychological responsibilities and burdens in his heart, and this inner worry will accompany him for a longer time.
As a teacher, if we can make both parents realize the responsibility of disciplining their children from this incident, let them get some enlightenment to educate their children to become friends, and let the two children learn some common sense of self-protection, then we are a mature teacher and the harvest of the whole incident.
(Beijing Normal University Basic Education Curriculum Research Center)
China Studio Jiang Huili)
Reflections on Four Kinds of Campus Injuries
In view of this case, I think the teacher's approach has advantages and disadvantages. Advantages: First of all, Mr. Chen sent the injured Xiaoping to the infirmary at the first time; Secondly, contact Xiaoping's parents immediately, send Xiaoping to the hospital together, and return to school after treatment; 3. Immediately after returning to school, investigate the matter, understand the situation, and get in touch with the father of Xiaojiang, the responsible person, that night; Fourth, Mr. Chen negotiated with his parents about how much each family would pay. Finally, it was settled. It can be seen from the above four points that Mr. Chen has fulfilled his responsibilities and obligations. However, the teacher was also annoyed by this incident, underestimated the problem of campus injuries, and did not take up legal weapons to properly handle the problem, but asked for trouble. If this happens to me, my method is:
1. Notify the school. If it's a small matter, it's ok to solve it yourself, but as a teacher, you must not hide it. You should report it to the school and let the school leaders help you deal with it, and solve it reasonably by the school as a unit.
2. resort to the law. If there really is a situation where Xiaoping's parents are uncompromising and Xiaojiang's father is disobedient, then they have to resort to the law and let the law seek justice for them.
Through this campus injury case, give our teacher an inspiration. That is: there are no extraordinary things on campus, but there are also extraordinary things. In particular, parents, students and society are becoming more and more aware of rights protection, and they often speak by law, which adds new tasks to educational schools and teachers. It is urgent to improve their ability to learn laws and regulations, enrich their knowledge in this field, follow the footsteps of laws and regulations, improve the school management system, actively explore and be willing to learn, and strive to create a harmonious environment and campus for students, parents and schools.
(Handian Middle School, Shuangcheng City, Wang Jingyang)
From the comments above, we can see that most teachers think that if this matter can't be solved, the best way is to write it into law. Then, if it is solved by legal means, what responsibilities will the parties to the case bear? We invited Jiang Yong, a lawyer from Heilongjiang Shengtong Law Firm, to interpret it for you.
Who will be responsible and what responsibility should be borne?
First of all, from Xiao Jiang's point of view, he accidentally bumped into Xiaoping from behind, causing Xiaoping to fall and be injured, which violated Xiaoping's personal rights. Because Xiao Jiang has no subjective purpose of intentionally hurting others, it should be defined as a tort in civil law in nature, and Xiao Jiang should bear corresponding civil liability for this behavior. However, due to Xiao Jiang's young age, he does not have the ability to independently bear civil liability (mainly tort liability). According to the relevant provisions of China's General Principles of Civil Law, his legal guardian, that is, Xiaojiang's parents, should bear this responsibility.
Secondly, whether the school takes responsibility in this incident depends on whether the school is at fault. Article 7 of the Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Application of Law in the Trial of Personal Injury Compensation Cases stipulates that:
"Schools, kindergartens or other educational institutions that are legally obligated to educate, manage and protect minors fail to perform relevant obligations within the scope of their duties, causing personal injury to minors, or minors causing personal injury to others, they shall bear corresponding liability for compensation.
If a third party causes personal injury to minors, it shall be liable for compensation. If schools, kindergartens and other educational institutions are at fault, they shall bear corresponding supplementary liability for compensation. "
If the school's rules and regulations have standardized the students' behavior at school, in this case, such as the arrangement of recess order and access route, the students' relevant regulations on the school are also clear, and the teachers have fulfilled their corresponding duties, then we should think that the school is not at fault for this incident and should not bear civil liability. On the contrary, it is necessary to bear the civil liability corresponding to its fault.
Then, how to avoid the recurrence of similar incidents, it is suggested that schools, first of all, improve students' behavior norms at school; Secondly, due to the poor civil capacity and self-control ability of minors, schools and teachers need to constantly strengthen students' awareness of safety and self-protection; Third, teachers should conscientiously perform their corresponding duties, promptly correct students' behaviors that violate the norms, and nip the possible adverse consequences in the bud.