Problems between me and my roommate.
Actually, my roommate and I are both two people. Apart from the friction between two people, there may also be some annoying problems, such as poor hygiene, loud voice, disordered work and rest, and bad temper. No matter who your roommate is, such personal questions are annoying. If you want to get along well with your roommate, you can first observe whether you have any annoying characteristics in this respect, and then observe your roommate.
The problem of getting along.
(1) communication problem
Basically, all the problems arising from the relationship between people will have the lack of communication. If people are compared to a point, then only communication can connect several points into a line, thus achieving the ideal goal. Roommates, especially girls, are particularly sensitive to this aspect, because girls are more delicate and have more problems to consider. Whether or not to say it, how to say it, no matter which step is flawed, it may destroy the relationship.
(2) the concept problem
There may be many differences in ideas, such as whether you and I think we should make phone calls in the dormitory, play music or videos outside and tell each other all the gossip we know. This small difference in concept will become more obvious when roommates get along. It is not unreasonable to say that there are four people in five groups in the dormitory. Everyone wants to get along with people who are similar to themselves and is unwilling to change for others easily.
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(3) Other issues
Not all problems can be found. For example, your roommate just likes someone, or just doesn't like you. What can you do? After all, college roommates are only artificially divided, just like when you were young, your parents took you to see another child and said that you two would get along well in the future. The feeling of being arranged is the same. There is no need to insist on being happy with your roommate. If there is, that would be great. If not, that's normal, as long as you do your own thing and don't affect others.
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