As the saying goes, "three women's lives", as far as the current situation is concerned, domestic undergraduate dormitories are generally four-room, six-room and eight-room, which inevitably makes the girls' dormitory a "big stage". On this basis, it is quite difficult for girls' dormitory to have a harmonious relationship.
First of all, in the university dormitory, everyone comes from all corners of the country, and every girl is an independent individual. Different living environments have created their different living and behavior habits, which have become an unacceptable basis for each other. Secondly, before this, most college students lived with caring families. They were child-centered, obedient and eager to create the best environment for their children. Therefore, when everyone in a room is self-centered, conflicts inevitably occur.
Third, the university is a semi-society. Compared with the simple learning environment in high school, rich spare time will make many people have no time to concentrate on dealing with dormitory relations. There are no major events in life, but the details that are inadvertently ignored make the contradictions increasingly intensified. The last and most important reason. Most girls are naturally sensitive, delicate in mind and thin-skinned. Many things can't be explained clearly in time when they are not things, so it will become more and more difficult to get along in the collective life in the future.
When I was an undergraduate, I studied in Beijing and lived in a dormitory for six people. In the dormitory, I struggled for four years for whether I could sit down and make a bed, whether I could take a bath every day or every few days, whether I could eat in the dormitory, how long it would take me to get to the corridor by phone, and so on. To sum up, I personally think it is difficult for girls' dormitories to be peaceful.