Flat roads and bumpy roads are clear at a glance, but some places are full of confusion and traps. At this stage of life, we must be full of wisdom, clear the fog, avoid the trap, and then move on.
Life is most likely to be confused when it is not deeply involved in the world, and then it falls into a trap and encounters bumps. So at this time, you must listen to your parents' opinions. After all, parents have experienced it. They have life experience, and their eyes will be more accurate and they will see farther.
Love is often the most confusing thing for girls. Love is covered with gorgeous colorful clothes, and the girl's heart is too naive and beautiful, so she will be confused by this gorgeous colorful clothes and finally get into trouble.
After graduating from college, Wang Chun went to work in a private enterprise, and her boss valued her very much. Wang Chun is not only capable but also beautiful, so many people pursue her. But she didn't fall in love in college. She devoted herself to studying hard.
After Wang Chun stepped into society, she should be looking for someone. Every time her parents in her hometown call her, they always remind her to find someone and then take her home to see her parents.
After working for two years, Wang Chun finally returned to her hometown with her boyfriend. When his parents first heard the news, they were very happy. But after meeting this future son-in-law, they were not satisfied. They hope that their daughter can find a young man of her age and get married for the first time.
This boyfriend is older than Wang Chun 15 years old. Wang Chun said that he was divorced, had a son, had a good family condition and started a company.
Parents don't want any company, nor do they expect their daughters to live a rich life. They just want to make their daughter happy. Therefore, although parents are not satisfied with this prospective son-in-law, they still respect their daughter's meaning and acquiesce in this relationship.
It stands to reason that after finding a good boyfriend, the next step is to get married. But my daughter and boyfriend are slow, and my parents keep urging Wang Chun. He always says, "Soon! Soon! "
This delay has dragged on for five years. Wang Chun is 30 years old, and his parents can't sit still. So, my parents came to Wang Chun from their hometown. Because Wang Chun said that he lived in the dormitory of the company, his parents went to the hotel to get a room.
After settling down, my parents went to the unit to find Wang Chun, only to learn that my daughter was a mistress and her boyfriend was the boss of her company. The daughter is waiting for the boss to divorce her, but the original match just won't leave, and the boss has been dragging her.
Now my daughter lives in the house rented by the boss and drives his car. Life seems to be going well. But parents are very traditional people. In their minds, there is no room for their daughters to be "mistresses". The old couple immediately ordered their daughter to break up with her boyfriend. The daughter didn't want to and cried.
Mother told Wang Chun earnestly that if her boyfriend was a good man, he would not take his wife and children out to have sex with young girls. If my boyfriend really wanted to marry Wang Chun, he would have divorced long ago. How can he not divorce after five years?
The father was very angry and called his daughter's boyfriend. On the phone, as an elder, he severely reprimanded his daughter's boyfriend. After scolding, the old couple angrily returned to the hotel. In the hotel, the more they think about it, the more they feel. They will stop their daughter's love affair at all costs.
So the old couple went to find their daughter overnight, and then they took their daughter back to their hometown. They forced her to stop being a mistress by death. Later, my daughter had no choice but to break up with her boyfriend, and then found a job in her hometown and started a new life.
In a blink of an eye, five years later, Wang Chun got married and had children in her hometown. A family of three lives happily.
One day she overheard her ex-boyfriend find another young girl after she left. Later the girl forced her ex-boyfriend to marry her. As a result, her ex-boyfriend disabled her, and now her ex-boyfriend is in prison. When Wang Chun heard this, she deeply thanked her parents. If her parents hadn't pulled her back from the brink, maybe she would have become the disabled girl.
When a girl is looking for a partner, never look for a man with a family. Whatever the reason, if a man still provokes little girls outside with his wife and children, there is something wrong with his character.
When looking for a partner, you must put your personality first. Today this man can betray his former wife, and tomorrow he can betray you. Therefore, this kind of man's feelings are worthless. They come to you only to meet their needs as men, not out of love.
If he really loves you, he should think of you, so he won't easily provoke your feelings. If he loves you and wants to be with you, he can divorce his original partner and stay with you aboveboard. Men who neither divorce nor break up with mistresses are extremely selfish men.
After life has taken a fork in the road, we should correct it in time and don't go further and further on the wrong road. Anyone in life can take a fork in the road. No big deal. The key is to pull back from the brink and lose yourself.
When you are at a crossroads and don't know where to go, please ask your parents for guidance. Parents are the most selfless people who love you in the world.