If you are a middle school student, you can attend the Bible study class or youth gathering organized by the church regularly every week, which can deepen your study and understanding of the Bible. It is best to go to church regularly every Sunday. If you don't have time (such as making up lessons and other learning activities), you can also participate in some church evening services.
If you are a college student, you can check in the school. There may be some parties and friendships organized by students themselves in general schools. If you are too busy to go to church, you can attend a student party at a fixed time every week (I attended a youth bible study party held by a school for Christian students when I was in college).
It's up to you whether to attend a family gathering or a public church. But I want to remind you not to judge the churches you have seen or not. Whether it is a public church or a family gathering, it is the church of God. God will never abandon any church that belongs to him. In some churches, there is only "Satan's seat" at most, but God never abandons his children. You can attend church, listen to sermons and be baptized in public churches; You can also do these things at family gatherings.
Generally speaking, Christians attend worship and gatherings every week, because Christians need spiritual progress. If they don't attend the party for a long time and don't study God (Bible), it is bad for their faith, so they must attend the party. If you are pressed for time, you can do it once every two weeks, but not for too long, otherwise it will affect your spiritual life.
The condition for most churches to be baptized is to listen to the sermon for one year, then attend the Bible study in the Mu Dao class, and then be baptized. The reason for this arrangement is that Mu Daoyou (a new believer) needs to be familiar with the Bible and his beliefs first. When his faith becomes clear, he can be baptized and declare himself to the world as a Christian. Baptism is just a ceremony, just like a "press conference" for believers.
Then it's up to you to learn:
Don't stop your daily spiritual practice, that is, reading the Bible and praying, which can help you know the truth.
Then you can also listen to sermon radio programs regularly; You can also attend parties and worship regularly to help your faith grow through communication with your brothers and sisters.