How to improve college students' interpersonal skills?
1, improve self-awareness and improve bad cognition.
When there is interpersonal conflict, some people will put their emotions on arguing who is right and who is wrong, and the problem will intensify. However, if they can be aware, constantly know themselves, improve themselves, find possible problems from themselves and take the initiative to improve. Then, the ability of self-awareness and interpersonal communication will continue to improve. In the process of interpersonal communication, we should understand others, put ourselves in others' shoes and learn to put ourselves in others' shoes.
2. Master interpersonal skills and improve personal psychological quality.
Learn from classmates with strong interpersonal skills around you and observe how others interact with others. What they do is what you like. What should you do? Learn to praise others. Praise is not hypocrisy, but appreciation based on facts. Knowing that no one likes to be accused, praise may become the driving force for growth and win good interpersonal relationships. In interpersonal communication, respect, sincerity and understanding each other from the perspective of others are the basis of interpersonal communication. It is necessary for us to study hard, learn to respect others, treat others sincerely and put ourselves in others' shoes.
3. Learn to control your emotions and avoid conflicts.
When you are in conflict with others, you should learn to handle things without emotion. When you are emotional, what you say may be irrational and not what we want to express. Therefore, it is very important to learn to control your emotions and deal with the present rationally, which needs to be practiced in daily life.