The ideal middle school college life is free, without studying hard, full of spirit and full of happiness. The reality is that universities are not as happy as they think, and they will understand that there are people outside, and there are mountains outside; Will understand that not everyone is qualified or has the opportunity to fall in love; Will understand or study hard; I will understand that even if I hate socializing, I must learn to socialize. In short, if you want to get ahead in front of others, you will suffer afterwards. As long as you don't want to lie flat, you should try your best to study or socialize.