If you have any problems in some aspects, you can mind your own business as long as it doesn't affect others. Therefore, it is very important to learn self-management, and because everyone is busy with their studies, exams for various certificates, completion of courses, preparation for postgraduate entrance examination and so on. Everyone may have different goals in life, so it is difficult to have like-minded people to accompany them to complete their studies and other life practices, so the ability of self-independence is very important.
If you like reading and thinking alone, go to the library and find a quiet corner. If you like to play with friends, go out to climb mountains and watch movies with your dormitory, class and other students. I think the most important ability after going to college is to find out what you really want, what you want to do in the future and what you should do now. If you have a goal and be yourself firmly, you will certainly gain something, no matter whether you are lonely or not on the road.
I think you should learn to do a lot of things by yourself when you listen to "everyone". It should be said that when you go to college, you will no longer have exactly the same goals and schedules as in high school, and do everything together; Everyone has his own plan and direction, and the schedule can't be exactly the same. Four people in the same dormitory will have different habits and rhythms. There is no need to force everything to be done together and do the same thing at this time.
Treat others' rejection correctly. When you invite your roommate to go to class, eat or study room, but the other person says you will go later or ask someone else to accompany you to refuse, take it literally and don't extend it too far: does he dislike me, will he tell others that I am not good ... This time he has already made an appointment with someone else to go to the library, and he can play ball together next time. Make things and people easier and make everyone easier to get along with.