Entering university is a major turning point in life. After the realization of the university dream for which we have struggled for more than ten years, our life goal is in a "vacuum". Perhaps many middle school teachers and parents have said that it is easier to go to college if you work harder in high school, and you can do whatever you want. It is true that many students relax after going to college. They live without rules, study without self-discipline, and have no goals and plans. At this time, it is most likely to produce emotions such as confusion, confusion and emptiness.

The mentality of the first year of college is generally from excitement to imbalance, and students with strong adjustment ability will adjust to a stable stage. When I first entered school, I was most excited, and I was a novel and excited mood for my new school, new teachers, new classmates and new roommates. But after half a semester, many students will feel disappointed and fall out of favor. Freshness In the past, I felt that the university life in reality was not as beautiful as that in the imagined university, and in a university with abundant talents, there was no star and moon spoil in middle school, and I gradually felt unbalanced. ?

Therefore, from high school to college, life goals, life, study and interpersonal relationships must be changed.

1, change the terminal thinking, take the university as a new starting point, sort out the past, re-establish new goals, and carefully plan the life of the university for four years. Find an ideal career in the future, work hard for it in the four years of college, and accumulate theoretical knowledge and practical experience.

2. Change your mind in life and tell yourself to learn to be independent and do your own thing well. Don't think that the school conditions are not good and the daily cleaning is troublesome, because this is a basic ability requirement for a person to survive in the world.

3. In learning, we should adapt to the different learning styles of middle schools and universities as soon as possible. To understand that the learning task of a university is heavy, you have to take several courses at the same time in a semester. University teachers make rapid progress in class, but teachers are less in charge. Therefore, to change passive learning into active learning in middle school, we not only need to digest and absorb the knowledge learned in class, but also need to supplement the whole knowledge system ourselves.

In terms of interpersonal communication, there are more interpersonal relationships in universities than in middle schools, including not only classmates, but also roommates, clubs, part-time jobs and so on. College roommates are the easiest to become close friends, so be kind to roommates and learn to respect, tolerate, tolerate and care.