I especially envy those who are careless and don't care about anything. They are busy and bored during the day, and they can fall asleep as soon as they stick pillows at night. It's simply envy. As for me, I haven't slept well since I was a child. I can't sleep at night unless I am particularly sleepy. When I turn off the lights and close my eyes, many things will come to my mind, and they are all things that make me unhappy and annoying.
I won't pursue perfection when I am busy, I won't complain about my parents' injustice to me, and I won't lament that my love path is so bumpy. How difficult is it to find a bosom friend?
I always feel lonely, not because I have no friends, nor because I have no husband, nor because I have no family and filial children, but because I can't find a bosom friend and the person with my voice. Sometimes I want to exchange ideas with my husband. As a result, I was not interested in talking any more without saying a few words, because it was like talking to a chicken and a duck.
When I first met my husband, I unilaterally thought that he should be different from my previous man, because he is a very talented student, and he and I have many common hobbies, such as traveling, reading, watching movies, listening to music and playing table tennis. Another advantage that I am particularly satisfied with is that he never interferes with my freedom. We all get along well except that he is not interested in financial management and investment.
But the longer we get along, the more I feel that he and I are not the same kind of people, because our concerns are different. Travel is just for novelty. He is not interested in local folk customs and snacks. He can't go anywhere without drinking. When drinking, his favorite food is the so-called hard food, and my snacks are always dismissive.
Reading, he read professional books, rarely read a non-professional book, or A Brief History of the Future, Godel Eisele Bach, etc. His biggest weakness is that he is unwilling to communicate with others, let alone share with others, so I don't know what he is thinking.
He is even more strange in watching movies and TV series. I always like watching new movies and TV plays. When I see which movie and TV series is commented by Big Coffee on the official WeChat account, I will go to the cinema to watch it, and the TV series will be searched out from iQiyi and Tencent videos. All he watches are old movies, and he often watches them on his computer at night. I asked him to accompany me to the TV theater to see the new movie, but he always refused. I forced him to go at first. After watching it, he always commented unhappily that these films are for fools. I was glad to get him to talk, but I lost interest immediately.
Over time, I stopped dragging him to accompany me to the movies, and I stopped trying to communicate with him. I often go to the cinema alone, preferring to write down happy things and share them with netizens rather than talk to him more. When I gave him up, our family never quarreled again.
Most of women's troubles in marriage come from the men they find. They always spare no effort to transform him and make him a good person in their own mind. However, different life backgrounds, different family education and different knowledge levels will lead to different views and understandings of life, so women began to have troubles and families began to have wars.
Realizing this, I began to transform myself and focus on myself. Then, there will be no worries and unhappiness, and life will be much happier. So, growing up, I always kept myself busy. Outsiders think I am diligent, and only I know that I am trying to escape.
In the last two months, I signed up for four classes to learn about financial management and investment. At first, I signed up for Xiaobai Financial Training Camp because of my curiosity. Anyway, I didn't spend any money, and I couldn't go out during the epidemic. The university for the aged has not resumed classes until now. It seems that there is no hope of resuming classes this year, and the venues for playing table tennis have also been banned. The swimming pool of the fitness club I signed up for didn't open until mid-June. As a result, many people like to cook jiaozi, and it never rains but it pours when I swim.
Unexpectedly, I fell in love with learning. During my study in Xiaobai Training Camp, I learned a lot of knowledge that I didn't know before, such as "investment can't be trinity", "how to prevent investment fraud", "psychological account has two dimensions and four quadrants", "dazzling investment products", "three mistakes" and "28 rules". Through study, I have broadened my horizons and thoroughly understood them.
Through the study of two courses: fund primary training camp and convertible bond investment course, I learned to screen broad-based index funds, learn to buy and sell funds according to valuation, and learn to screen and invest in a new investment product, that is convertible bonds.
Last June, 5438+February, a sister taught me to type new convertible bonds. I didn't think I was really lucky. I won 10 in June 5438+February, but in 2020, due to the epidemic, the number of convertible bonds issued was several times less than that of 20 19, so I won the lottery nine months later.
The new debt is indeed a good investment product with low risk and high return. So far, I have obtained 32 contracts and 29 convertible bonds have been listed. None of them are bad. I sold it on the day of listing, and the income was 5845.52 yuan. According to the statistics of our class, the new debt income was nearly 20 thousand yuan last year.
Last week, the whole market fell for a week in a row. I just screened six AAA negotiable bonds last Monday. I am a man with strong mobility. I learned to invest on the day of screening. Last week, the stock index fell for five days in a row and fluctuated sideways at 3200 points on Tuesday. I actually have two negotiable bonds in my hand, and one of them earns 2.08%.
This fully proves that the more investment knowledge you learn, the more varieties you can choose to invest, and the more benefits you will naturally get.
There is a saying in the investment community that makes sense: "What a person earns is what he knows." If you improve your knowledge of investment and financial management, why not make money?
But in China, when it comes to financial management, people naturally think of stocks, and then think of disasters, unwilling to learn, unwilling to learn. There are many reasons, but the most common reason is lack of time.
I started studying in mid-July. What I have to do every day is to listen to the pronunciation class, do my homework after class, watch the sharing content in the sharing study group and do breakthrough questions. There is one at 8 am, one at noon 12: 20 and one at 8 pm. Occasionally, I will have another chicken leg meal in the evening.
Listen to voice lessons from morning till night before 10 every day. In such a busy state, I also use my spare time to complete several routine tasks in bonus hunter and watch several TV series, such as Hunting the Lonely during my study in Xiaobai Training Camp and Cai 30 and The Two of us in Xiaobai Training Camp. "Skyscraper" was finished during the foundation's elementary class, and it was watched at noon and night; When I was studying convertible bonds, I finished reading "Female Prince" and now I am reading "Planning Bureau".
I have loved watching movies and TV series since I was a child. In order to see a movie, in those years when I lived in the countryside, I often walked several miles to other brigades at night. I remember that my family bought a black-and-white TV set very early, and it was because I said I wanted to learn English that my father got a ticket for the TV set through connections, and then moved home with a 12 inch Beijing brand black-and-white TV set.
My investment in learning began after my divorce. Because of the divorce, my ex-husband took the house and didn't give me the children. It was agreed that the children's living expenses and study expenses would be shared by two people, but it was difficult to ask my ex-husband for money every time, so I decided to make money by myself.
Just because I want to be financially independent, I don't want to idle my thoughts. I like watching TV series, so no matter how much time I have and how busy I am at work, I will find time to satisfy my investment desire and catch up with TV series.
The so-called lack of time just because you don't want to, what you don't want to do and what you don't want to learn can be excused by "no time".
In fact, time is like water in a sponge. There will always be a squeeze. The most important thing is whether you want to or not!