1, put down your attitude
Let go of your attitude and get to know the people around you carefully, and you will find that they are not as bad as you think. That silly girl who failed the exam may also carry you to the infirmary when you are seriously ill; That girl with a bad mouth may stand up for you when you are bullied by others. Life is actually very simple, and no one's life is that simple. No matter how big the storm is, the dust will settle in the end. You should find more bright spots in them and learn from them. After all, flaws can't cover up their own flaws. When you take them seriously, you will also get their honesty.
2. Activity contact person
Take the initiative to contact roommates and understand their living habits and hobbies, rather than draw a line with them. There is a story that Xiao Lu is a studious child. She often goes to the library to study with friends in other dormitories. Gradually, she found that she seemed to be getting farther and farther away from her roommates, because there was nothing to talk about with them, and then she spent little time together. Unless she usually shares snacks together, she has never experienced anything else, and she doesn't appreciate the deep room friendship, even if she goes out to eat. In order to avoid things like Xiao Lu, we should take the initiative to move our roommates. I believe that through your efforts, we can get along well with them and enter their circle.
Step 3 learn to be tolerant
College roommates are people from all directions, and their living habits may be different, so sometimes you may not like some of their living habits, but try to be considerate and tolerant, avoid conflicts as much as possible, and give more warm tips, which will also help improve the relationship.
4. Communicate and negotiate more.
If you have problems, it is very helpful to face them together. These small details in life need to be actively discussed with roommates, and more opinions can promote the solution of things!
The above is my personal understanding, welcome to adopt!