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In primary school, parents, teachers and even the whole society instilled the idea of going to college. It seems that university is a paradise, even if we sacrifice our childhood and then our youth, it is worthwhile.
Adults always lied to us when we were children. If we suffer a little now, it will be easier to go to college later, or we can find a good job and live a good life later, and so on. I didn't understand it at first, and I didn't experience it, so I naturally believed it. Therefore, I have cherished the ideal of getting into a good university since I was a child, and I don't care about anything else. 12 in an instant!
When I stepped into the university gate, my heart was full of surging, as if I could do something big and earth-shattering But I didn't expect that college was actually the beginning of a lie.
It's not that easy in college. It's not that simple if you are scolded only for failing the exam in the past. If you fail in the exam, you will have to retake it, or even worse. The learning difficulty is not comparable to that in the past.
And then what about college life? Participate in club activities, socialize, and go out with friends ... Being busy with these things seems very fulfilling, but I always feel that some things are worse, and I always feel a little vain! I don't want to talk about interpersonal relationships in college. I have always wondered that the older people get, the more they understand, but the less they know how to tolerate others. Even I find myself changed now, becoming a selfish person, a person I once hated.
In a word, unlike before, college students nowadays rarely want to talk to someone, but there are not many people who can play together. In most cases, students in the class, even those in the same dormitory, are just strangers who know their names!
I think everyone's values are very different! But I also think so. When you are young, there are no so-called values. It's easy to get along naturally, but it's different when you get older. If you have your own values, you have to find those who get along with you when you make friends, because only in this way can you talk together.
As for organizations such as the Student Union and the Youth League Committee, it is not easy to be a man after entering. If the world is not sophisticated enough, it is always easy for brothers and sisters who are ministers or presidents to feel uncomfortable, so be careful what you say and don't say it casually. If you are wrong, their faces will show.
In short, it is annoying. Although you will enter the society in the future, you need to be cautious all the time. So think about it, this situation in the university is a kind of transition to society!
After much thought, I thought of that problem again. Has man changed society or society changed man? It seems that the most difficult thing to understand is the human heart!