1. Participate in learning appropriately. You are the people who know children best. Help children set appropriate learning goals in college, cultivate their professional interests and pay attention to their learning status. If children lose their goals and feel confused about the future, please communicate with them more during the holidays to discuss whether to continue the postgraduate entrance examination, or to understand their thoughts and dreams about future life and help them find the way and direction to their goals and dreams. We must change the idea of being free and relaxed when we go to college. Going to college is not easy or free, and some majors are even more difficult to learn than high school. Therefore, you need to help your children. They still have to face many problems, fearing that they will not graduate. You need to pay attention to these. Sometimes they can't help themselves, and sometimes they lie to you. Therefore, you need proper intervention.

2. Appropriate participation in life. Your children may not take care of themselves in life, lack the necessary communication skills, and feel frustrated among college students. At this time, they need your proper guidance. After returning home, let the children do what they can, instead of doing everything, so that the children can master the basic viability. We should also teach your children to put themselves in others' shoes. Students in universities come from all parts of the motherland, and students in each place have their own personality characteristics and living habits. Students in the same dormitory and class must love and help each other. This ability must not be ignored, because children will enter social work one day, and those who are lazy and have poor interpersonal relationships will find it difficult to improve their careers. However, the students don't realize that you should help your children understand and never speak ill of someone in the dormitory with your children. Children have their own way of getting along. Parents only need to educate their children well, and too much use of children to instill some "labels" into other children will bury hidden dangers in getting along with children.

3. properly participate in love. For your children to fall in love, I think what you have to do is to tell your children to carefully consider the object of love and know how to protect themselves. When you encounter lovelorn, you should learn to bear it yourself, learn to seek help actively, and learn to deal with your emotions. Others don't advise you to interfere too much, they have their own lives;

4. Appropriate participation in student work. It is good for children to be keen on student work. It is a good opportunity for them to exercise their abilities and improve their quality. You should encourage and support them. You just need to tell your children to prioritize and deal with the relationship between study and student work. Because children go out of society and fight for comprehensive quality and comprehensive ability;

5. Appropriate participation in the face of setbacks. For freshmen, they are all excellent students in high school. They used to be "above" and were often praised by teachers and classmates. But when they go to college, they will face many setbacks and failures, such as disharmony in interpersonal relationships in life, incorrect learning methods, failure in love and so on. Many parents think that children don't need to be in charge as before when they enter college. This view is unreasonable. For students who have just entered the university, there are many problems for the first time. When they don't do well, when they encounter difficulties and setbacks, they need teachers and parents. When children encounter problems or failures, don't blame and complain, but analyze and solve them with them. At this time, they really need your warmth and support.