According to the algorithm of China people, I am 2 1 year old this year.
Companions are detestable. Think of n years ago, when Zhou Lang was in his twenties, he was already a sublime party in Jiangdong. The chair under me is often quivering now. I wonder if it is caused by the afterglow of Zhou Lang. I remember last year, when I was almost 20 years old, I thought it was more meaningful to write a novel to celebrate. I feel that I haven't made any progress until now, except for the name "20 years", which makes me very disappointed.
Coupled with the sudden feeling of self-reliance recently, I am also quite surprised. Kong Old Master Q said, "Stand at thirty." I'm not old, but I can't stand it. It is natural for people in their twenties to feel meaningful and realize self-reliance. Of course, it is good to have a sense of self-reliance, but the problem is not that you can stand up if you want to. From the twenties to the thirties, if the calculation is correct, it is 67 years, which should be enough.
As the research shows, 97% of people who have no long-term goals are working for the other 3%, and they have long-term and short-term plans. Those who achieve great things need to have a long-term plan that will remain unchanged for life. People who live in the upper and middle classes of society generally have short-term plans, while those who have no plans mostly live in the lower classes of society. No one wants to be inferior for a long time, so it is self-evident that it is important to make your own plans. A good life is inseparable from good planning, and a successful life is inseparable from successful planning and constant struggle under the guidance of correct planning. Life is like sailing in the sea, and life planning is the basic route of life. With the route, we will not deviate from the goal, and we will not lose our way, so that we can sail to the other side of success more smoothly and quickly.
College may be the real beginning of life. After experiencing college life, you will find that life has suddenly changed in the form of180. Bernard Shaw famously said, "Reasonable people adapt themselves to the world, while unreasonable people try to adapt the world to themselves." It is in this maladjustment that life advances in the long river of adjustment and development. University is also an extremely important period in one's career. According to the career development theory of American scholars, university is the exploration stage of a person's career, and the main tasks of this stage are:
1. Develop and discover your own needs and interests, develop and discover your own abilities and talents, and lay a solid foundation for the actual career choice.
2. Learn professional knowledge, look for realistic role models, get rich information, develop and discover their own values, motives and ambitions, make reasonable educational decisions, and turn childhood career fantasies into operational reality.
3. Receive education and training, and cultivate the basic habits and skills needed in the work.
In other words, what kind of person I will become in this life depends largely on my efforts in these five years. When you graduate, whether you work directly, go to graduate school or go abroad, your choice of space and success are closely related to your usual college life.
At present, my top priority is to take the postgraduate entrance examination. Nowadays, the social employment pressure is great. Knowledge and talent are the last word if we want to stand in a complicated environment, especially for our medical students. So in the short term, my goal is to learn all subjects well, have excellent skills and knowledge, and strive for scholarships. At the same time, I will not relax my study of English and politics, and always prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination. Later, in the fifth grade, I worked hard to take the postgraduate entrance examination and accumulated some experience through internship. My goal is to learn to be mature, be good at communication, master psychology courses, make extensive contacts and develop contacts.
During the graduate school, I feel that I should master professional knowledge comprehensively, lay a good foundation for my work, and be mentally prepared to meet the challenges and accidents of formal work. Use spare time to master other knowledge. Make full use of the time for postgraduate students to study at school before graduation to supplement their required knowledge and skills. Including participating in social group activities, reading related books extensively, taking elective courses, auditing related courses, applying for skills qualification certificates, etc.
In the next two to three years, I will be mentally prepared for social life, face the extremely dark side of social injustice, and firmly believe that prosperity will help the world, and poverty will be immune to it. Let patients have a sense of trust in themselves and give people a sense of security.
Decide whether to study PhD or not according to the actual situation. ......
If I work, I think I should do the following things:
1. Actively strive for opportunities. Actively strive for opportunities for learning and progress. For example, to do technology, you need to exercise more, study more and improve your level. A technology, as long as there is an opportunity to learn, there will be an opportunity to learn; If there is no chance, genius can't learn this technology. Liu Chuanzhi said that Yang Yuanqing was "crying and crying for progress", but he was actually fighting for his own opportunities; Of course, this strong desire for progress is also a place that leaders value. Every step forward and accumulate 10 years, you will have more opportunities than others.
2. Accumulate personal reputation. From the first day of your career, you should act on the principle of honesty. For this reason, when people mention my name, they will say, this guy is not bad, he is doing well.
3. Pay attention to the accumulation of wealth. Wealth is the key to freedom of life. Otherwise, it will always make people gasp and look at their faces. People are snobs. In the future family and career, the accumulation of money is very important. Without money, you can never start your own business and get more opportunities. Only by accumulating wealth year by year can I have a happy family life. There can be no happy family without money.
4. Pay attention to the accumulation of contacts. After all, career depends on social network resources. Pay attention to know people in my field and make friends with them. In the end, they will help your career. Listen to the opinions of successful predecessors and successful friends. Pay less attention to the opinions of the elders at home, especially those who have retired. Their understanding of society remained a long time ago, and great changes have taken place in this society. Most importantly, elders sometimes force you to do something, but they are not responsible for the final result. Only you can be responsible for yourself.
5. Pay attention to practical exercise
(1) Exercise your attention, think in a noisy environment and work normally. Consciously train yourself in a big and noisy office.
(2) Develop good exercise, diet and living habits. Sleep 6-8 hours a day and exercise more than three times a week.
(3) Make full use of your working conditions to expand the circle of friends, attach importance to the circle of classmates, and attach importance to communication with everyone, regardless of status and intimacy. Discuss and communicate with teachers and classmates during school, and choose to communicate with some of them often after graduation. Actively communicate with the direct supervisor at work to deepen understanding; Take advantage of the large number of alumni, participate in alumni networking activities, and often contact and communicate with them.
One's life is long and changeable. The adjustment of national policy, the change of external conditions, the change of family situation and the emergence of unexpected events will make our situation difficult. In the face of difficulties and hardships, I will face life with optimism and openness; Support yourself with perseverance; Occupy the soul with the correct value orientation. Take hardship as a kind of discipline, a kind of accumulation and a kind of maturity.
The ancients said that "sorrow is greater than death in the heart" and "ambition is greater than constant moment". In the face of difficulties and obstacles, as long as the fire in our hearts is not extinguished and our wings are not broken, we will certainly be able to get out of the swamp of life and usher in the sunny day of life.
I remember a song that sang, "Life is beautiful when you have dreams. After several storms and many cycles, it fell out of the iron and hit Korea, and the rolling stone brewed a thunderbolt. " . Let me cherish opportunities, meet challenges, consciously hone in hardships, and be an iron man across the century.
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