1. Active communication: If there are contradictions and dissatisfaction between roommates or neighbors, you can actively communicate, express your thoughts and opinions, and try to find a solution to the problem. You can choose a suitable time and place to avoid emotional excitement and quarrel.

2. Ask for help: If you can't handle the dormitory relationship well, you can ask the counselor, student affairs office or other relevant personnel for help. They can provide advice and guidance to help solve the dormitory relationship problem.

3. Change dormitory: If the dormitory relationship is very bad and affects your study and life, you can apply to the school for a dormitory change. But this needs to be applied and reviewed within a certain period of time, and it needs to be prepared in advance.

4. Self-adjustment: If the dormitory relationship is not good, you can also start from yourself and adjust your attitude and behavior. Try to avoid conflicts and contradictions with roommates or neighbors, and maintain good interpersonal relationships and mutual respect.

In a word, the bad relationship between university dormitories is a common problem and needs to be solved actively. You can actively communicate, ask for help, change dormitories or adjust yourself, and maintain a good dormitory relationship and study and living environment.