In short, you should make some changes to make your influence neat and generous, which is different from before.
2. You should blend in with the crowd, go where others go, eat what others eat, play where others go, get together and chat with you. If someone bullies you, fight back. If you can't win, take a knife (I'm not teaching you to chop people, I want you to stop being bullied by others. )
You should exercise more, run more, practice speaking more, make yourself cheerful and get rid of anything that annoys others.
Do as I say, within three months, only you will bully others, no one will bully you, no one dares to look down on you, and you will have many friends.