I have been confused and confused when I stayed in college. We used to be hypocritical and calm; Laughing loudly and crying painfully. Sometimes I try not to be a floating cloud, and sometimes I see through the world of mortals. Many people don't know their situation, lose themselves and change. Personally, I think different people regard universities as the following places. 1, temple. The monastery is a place of reflection. Similarly, a university can also be a place for reflection. Here, you can find out who you are, what you are good at, what you like, what you will do in the future, what your weaknesses are, how to correct them, and what you have an epiphany about one thing. Some friends will laugh, but do you still need to reflect? I don't know myself yet! I will say rudely: you are wrong. It can be said that this is the sorrow of education. When you were young, your teacher taught you to lie and hide yourself. The teacher asked you what you want to be when you grow up. Some children say I want to be a scientist, while others say I want to work when I grow up. People who work are bound to be criticized. When I grow up, the whole class can only say that the desire to work has come true. I don't know what I'm good at, what I like to do, and what characteristics I have since I was a child. I just fantasize about it, or I don't want to. As time went by, I finally achieved nothing. Fortunately, the university provides us with enough time to reflect on ourselves. 2. brothels. For the record, brothel doesn't mean that, but now it means the place of love. Every college student has his own happiness, but some are weak, some are trapped, some are injured, some are tired, some are happy, and some see through love. But I am firmly opposed to ignoring the future for love. It's best to find a like-minded boyfriend and girlfriend, otherwise it will be really difficult to get along with each other in the future. Knowing the selfless love of parents in love is an important truth that love brings to you, which makes you realize what it is like to love others. It is normal to regard college as a place for love, which is a physiological need! But you can't just be a place of love, because your own future needs your care! I sincerely hope that people who are trapped in love will get out as soon as possible. Spend more time thinking about what you should do and what you are suitable for. 3. the government. Student union, exchange students, exchange students in power. In college, some people want to exercise their organizational and propaganda skills and coordinate their communication skills, so they enter the student union, some become presidents or ministers in the student union, and some drop out of school in their sophomore year. Anyway, they have exercised, and they can't regret it, let alone be complacent. Because when you are a minister or chairman in a university, you may not be what you are in the future. Just keep the right attitude and realize what you can only understand. It can change you, maybe just give you a mask to wear. What is really valuable is actually your own unique temperament and personality. There is a saying that successful people always keep their own unique side and never turn themselves into others. 4. University. The purest meaning of university: learning. It is better to think of the university as a college student. In today's society, your learning ability determines the height of your career. Such students should be warned not to die, and to master the rules of study, because the professional knowledge used in the future only accounts for 20% or even less of the work. What the university learns is the most basic thing that must be mastered, and it is very necessary and insufficient knowledge. What it learns in the job accounts for 80% or more, which the university can't learn. Therefore, if you master the learning method, you can learn it and be handy at work. 5. Sanatorium. Mediocre, mediocre, silly to play mobile phone in class after dinner, lying in bed after class, thinking nothing, not studying, not falling in love, not reflecting on yourself, not working, not studying, just playing, sleeping and eating, just like supporting the elderly. In fact, it is wonderful to have such a time in life. You can't play after work. We all need this time, but we need to limit it. It is best to combine this time period with the time of reflection, reflect while playing, feel life while eating and sleeping, and make your heart full of sunshine and gratitude. Being as smart as a fool is also a realm.