1, the past life of PUA
PUA was highly praised by people at the beginning of its birth, because what was his original intention at the beginning of its birth? Share some skills and psychological applications with men, so that they can better approach and strike up a conversation with their favorite people through some quality improvement? . It is undeniable that at the beginning of its establishment, PUA showed its positive side, which made many introverts go out of their own world and integrate into everyone. However, no one ever thought that the dark side of human nature would be magnified bit by bit here. When some criminal gangs with ulterior motives appeared here, PUA was completely reduced to their criminal tools.
Since then, PUA is no longer? Mutual help? , but became? Use? . Here people do whatever it takes to achieve their goals, just to satisfy their special hobbies. Over time, PUA became a paradise for these criminals. With the help of PUA, they cover themselves up, talk to others, deal in drugs, smuggle, cheat money and cheat women. This series of things has therefore been sublimated on this platform.
2. How does 2.PUA harm mankind?
PUA packages itself through systematic study, practice and constant self-improvement of emotional intelligence, while some foreign criminal gangs use the so-called mentality of learning English or foreign boyfriends as a facade to induce the opposite sex to associate with it, and by brainwashing the opposite sex and deceiving the feelings of the opposite sex, they achieve the purpose of having sex with the opposite sex. ?
Actually, I prefer to use this heresy that has developed into heresy? Wound enemy 1000, damage 800? To describe this thing. It is harmful to people's spirit, not only to users, but also to recipients. They are all losers in social life. Only here can they change their identities and satisfy their inner vanity. For the user, at first, he thought he controlled the girl, but in the end, he was just controlled by himself.
3. How to avoid the poison of PUA?
In fact, avoiding the poison of PUA is not as difficult as imagined. Above we mentioned the common routines of PUA. At first, he will definitely design a nearly perfect person for you, which will make you have countless fantasies, but then he will keep suppressing you and making an issue of your defects to crush your self-esteem. So, when you meet such a person, please remember: stay away. In real life, isn't it? Cinderella? Don't fantasize that such a story will happen and come to your world.
Of course, this is not enough to stop PUA. The most important thing is to have a clear understanding of yourself. You are not perfect, and don't forget why you are in love. A good relationship should be that two people work together, advance together, and have a peaceful corner in a chaotic world.
I hope the users and recipients of PUA can wake up and return to the real world, where everyone can have the sweet love they want.