So I suggest changing the subject to deal, my friend. Being a girlfriend as soon as we meet will scare people, hehe.
If you are introverted, I suggest that you don't pay too much attention to this in the process of interacting with girls. What you did, deliberately changing people's feelings backfired.
You can go to the local forum website to check, there will be some friends or topics you are interested in, and you will also meet some girls, but in a word, step by step! (/group/ 1) I just looked around and saw it. Go in and see if it helps, hehe.
Everyone has a suitable girl waiting for you all his life. Bless you!