This is mainly manifested in the fact that college students' men and women can't correctly and objectively understand their own bodies and secondary sexual characteristics. Puberty feels shy, uneasy and doesn't understand the secondary sexual characteristics. Women are dissatisfied with breast development and worry about being fat and thin. Some teenagers form body image obstacles because of their one-sided pursuit of slimness. Men are dissatisfied with their genitals and are distressed by their short stature. Some teenagers don't realize that the sudden increase does not start at all parts of the body at the same time, which leads to problems in body image and self-confidence.

2. The problem of sexual consciousness

After the individual enters adolescence, with the maturity of physiology, sexual consciousness begins to awaken. The common sexual consciousness of college students includes being attracted by the opposite sex, thinking about sexual problems frequently, sexual fantasies, sexual dreams and so on. These sexual psychological activities are very common among college students, and many students can treat them correctly. However, among some college students, sexual psychological activities have become a bad factor that puzzles their psychology and behavior, and the incidence rate is extremely high.

3. The main sexual behaviors that plague teenagers are masturbation, borderline sex and premarital sex, among which masturbation is the most common. Masturbation (masturbation) is one of the important reasons of psychological distress.

Teenagers often worry about getting into the habit of masturbation. They don't know whether masturbation will have harmful effects on the body and mood, whether it is a rare or abnormal activity, whether other people have masturbated, and whether it will damage their sexual life in the future. The myth that masturbation can produce acne, mental disorder or infertility is still widespread.

evaluation criteria

Sexual mental health must meet the following four conditions:

First, the individual's body and mind should belong and have obvious contrast. If yin and yang are indistinguishable, it will be difficult to carry out sound sexual behavior and obtain happy love.

Second, individuals have good sexual adaptation, including self-adaptation and heterosexual adaptation, that is, they can accept their own sexual characteristics and desires and get along well with the opposite sex.

Third, treat both sexes equally and should not artificially create division, discrimination or prejudice. Have a clear understanding of all sexual ignorance, prejudice and fallacy formed by various historical reasons, and have an understanding and pursuit of sexual civilization.

The fourth is to be able to enjoy sex naturally and with high quality.