How can I put it? If you are talking about yourself, I suggest you take the initiative to chase girls, because most girls in China are deeply influenced by Confucianism, and they will have some reservations. Of course there will be girls chasing you. After all, today's girls will be very cheerful, but there are still many girls who obviously like it, but just want to pretend that they don't care, waiting for you to confess. I read an article before, which was about this. Handsome men are always waiting to be confessed. In fact, many girls are afraid to approach him because of his handsome face. Because girls think too much, they will feel that they are not worthy of you, so even if they put you in their hearts, they will not confess. Therefore, if you like someone, you might as well take the initiative, or you may miss this loving couple when others say it.