Love is for finding like-minded lifelong partners in the future, not for comfort and excitement, not just for sexual satisfaction. The choice of love object is a complicated process, and factors such as economy, politics, culture and personality cannot be ignored, but the ideal orientation and moral sentiment of * * * are the most fundamental. The quality of love motivation is directly related to the success of love. As a bridge of the new era, college students' love view should be an organic combination of ideal, morality, career and sex.

Step 2 be responsible

Many college students experience love with the mentality of "only wanting to have it once, not wanting to last forever". However, it turns out that love is a kind of responsibility, which requires the other party to have a strong sense of responsibility. Only by treating each other sincerely and living in harmony can we ensure the continuous development of love relationship in a positive and healthy direction.

3. Maintain appropriate independence.

In feelings, some people will become overly dependent on each other, which is good to some extent, but long-term dependence on each other will easily make them lose themselves and some of their original charm, and at the same time, they will also make each other feel bored and the quality of their feelings will be long-term. Therefore, it is necessary to maintain appropriate independence in feelings, not to rely too much, and to have your own opinions, which may make feelings last longer.

4. Correctly handle the relationship between love and study.

Love is beautiful, it is an important part of life, but not the whole of life, it should be subordinate to the cause and promote the development of the cause. Only when one's career is successful can love be better. Therefore, college students should put their studies first and straighten out the relationship between love and studies.

5. Don't be forced.

Some people often use some means of intimidation and inducement when chasing their favorite object, but this is not a charming performance. Sometimes making someone like you depends not on chasing, but on attracting them. Therefore, in the early days of love, I suggest you learn to show your strengths and strengths reasonably to attract each other, and don't force each other, so as to help you get happiness faster.