Of course, I can also choose to do something that interests me. For example, I like dancing, and I have regained my confidence in dancing. Now I don't feel inferior at all.
I'm not sure what you mean by inferiority. I will answer from two aspects. First of all, when we were in high school, we were in adolescence. Usually, the study pressure is great and the time is tight, so we can't control ourselves at all. Frankly speaking, we want to be beautiful. Our purpose is only one, and that is the college entrance examination. Generally speaking, external beauty is not important, but spiritual beauty is the most important. However, the society is still a little embarrassed now, but we must recognize the reality that the college entrance examination is the first time that we have changed our destiny through our own efforts. There is only one chance, and time waits for no one. However, after changing yourself to make yourself beautiful, there are many opportunities. We should put all our experiences on study. People will say that you are good-looking, but you can be the first in your class through your own efforts, and you will often be failed by others. Therefore, it is most important to get into an ideal school, and to know when and what to do.
Secondly, academic performance leads to inferiority. Everyone has different learning methods, different acceptance, different learning efficiency and different IQ, so there will be a ranking from positive to negative, so we should treat this problem correctly. As long as you work hard and have a clear conscience, the final result is not that important. However, I only complain about why others get good grades every day, and I feel so poor and depressed. The more I think about it, the more I feel inferior to others. Such people will only make themselves really worse and worse. Proper comparison with others can give us motivation, but what matters is what we do after comparison.
You know, there must be a stage in a person's life when he finds himself lonely and then lives with loneliness. However, the sooner he discovers this stage, the better.
Answer: I graduated from college for two years this year. I have been an introvert since I was a child. When I was a child, I lacked playmates and my parents were very busy at work, so I formed a likable personality. When I was in primary school, I was afraid of loneliness. I had to do everything with my female classmates. In junior high school, I was afraid of loneliness and always went to school with my classmates. Even if this person's personality and outlook on life are resisted in my heart, I will stay with her. Because I am introverted, it is difficult to communicate with strangers, so it is difficult to make new friends and cherish people around me more. And maybe it's because I have too few friends, and I am possessive of my friends. If my friend treats her friends as well as me, or better than me, I will be very sad in my heart, but I won't show it, but I will end this friendship quickly in other ways.
Because I am eager for someone to come into my heart, I learned to pretend that I can blend in with all the people to some extent, but when those people I cheated really came into me, I showed my thorns again. Therefore, this abnormal and selfish personality leads me to have no particularly good friends, only the one who walks with you on the road for a while and then laughs and says goodbye.
This situation continued until the second year of high school. Before that, my grades were not very good. More than 60 people in my class are over 30, and there is no ideal. My parents' expectation is only two exams. After graduating from college, I will take an examination of a civil servant in the tax bureau opposite my home. I met the first boy I liked in my life, saying it was a boy, but it was actually a male god. At that time, I felt that others were very good and I felt that I would become very good. I began to study hard, give up unnecessary communication, stop flattering anyone and start being myself. Nobody paid attention to me, so I quietly looked for a book to read.
I began to find that when people give up a lot of unnecessary communication around them, life will become very free. When you have a goal in life, when you try to run forward, the faster you run, the less you can hear the voices around you.
In the whole year of senior three, I talked to myself and began to pay attention to my parents, thinking that they were really hard. Answer: I worked hard for a year in senior three. Although I was not admitted to my favorite Xiamen University, I was also admitted to an ideal university, because my home is in a small town on the 18 line, which is quite satisfactory.
Later, I went to college. Because I adapted to the loneliness of high school, I began to do everything by myself. As I said on the internet before, being friendly with others is cultivation, and being alone is character. Because I have been talking to myself and reading some books, I will be more mature than my classmates in thought, and I will consider the future road earlier and start planning my own route. Because I don't pay much attention to friendship, I don't care whether I pay or not, which makes my friends more comfortable. I actually gained a lot of unexpected friendships in college. Everyone has the same views and hobbies. Because I often recite in the empty classroom alone, the teacher thinks I am diligent when I see me, and provides me with a lot of help in study and postgraduate entrance examination, as well as some opportunities at work. Maybe these things are common to others, but the answer is precious, because compared with when I was unhappy before, now it is simply heaven.
Therefore, what I want to tell the subject is that loneliness in life is normal. If you find it early, you will be on the right path faster. Find a goal now and work hard. One day, when you look back, you will be grateful for what made you grow.
Want to know what your inferiority complex is? Because it's not good enough? Is it because of being fat? Is it bad study? Is it a personality problem? Wait, wait, wait, but anyway, you must first find out what is the reason for your inferiority complex.
If you are not beautiful or fat enough, you should lose weight, become beautiful and care about your face. In fact, it would be nice to be clean and comfortable at school. Even if you have acne on your face, it will be overcome sooner or later according to your work habits, maintenance level and mentality. Don't care too much. When you go to college and have time to learn beauty and skin care, you will become more and more beautiful. Of course, the most important thing in high school is to study!
If you don't study well, study hard. You are stupid, but you won't regret it if you work hard. There is no need to feel sad. Only stupid people who give up on themselves should feel inferior. Those who work hard deserve happiness. Find a firm future goal in high school, so can the target school and the short-term goal. Only when you have something to do, you won't think so much.
Personality problems are not easy to change. I found that if a person wants to change, he has to read more books. Reading will subtly make your three views different, and will let you know a lot of things you don't understand, and then you will be suddenly enlightened.
I hope you can be more and more confident, stronger inside, care about other people's eyes, love yourself more, come on, baby.
Senior high school students' inferiority complex generally comes from three reasons. First, family factors, such as being born in a poor family economic environment, or parents' emotional disharmony or divorce. Second, my appearance, because I feel that my image temperament is not good enough, especially when I have a secret love, is easy to feel inferior. Third, poor academic performance, no matter how hard you work. However, whatever the reason, you can adjust yourself psychologically. The poor economy at home shows the significance of your study. You should be proud that your study has changed your family. If it is because of your parents' feelings, there is no need to feel inferior. No matter what they do, you are the treasure they prayed for when they were pregnant in October. If it is because of the appearance and temperament of inferiority, it is even more unnecessary. A cloud treasure is your answer. I feel inferior because I don't study well enough. I think it's good to study hard and be worthy of yourself. All roads lead to Rome. It's enough to be yourself.
It's no use asking others about their inferiority complex, such a cruel answer. Because your "inferiority complex" comes from "inside", that is, from yourself, it is useless to turn to the outside world for help.
The essence of inferiority is: low sense of self-worth, feeling that you are not good everywhere, not accepted, not optimistic, not liked. The improvement of self-worth can't be achieved in three to five months. Is to experience different things, different people, and slowly change. Some people say that reading is a temporary and unstable promotion. When things are rejected, ignored and not accepted, the sense of value gained through reading will be destroyed immediately. Therefore, Han Han has a good saying: we all understand the truth, but we still have a bad time.
In addition, we should also realize that inferiority is not your own business, and everyone has different thresholds. Some people have a higher frequency of inferiority, while others have a lower frequency of inferiority. We can't think that inferiority is a disease, it's just a kind of psychology that sometimes exists in our lives.
Answering the Lord is also inferior. I am in junior high school and senior high school. Later, I thought I would stop studying psychology when I went to college. As a result, I found that I was still very inferior when I was a graduate student. If you need help, you can write privately. Good wishes!
How to overcome inferiority complex?
Inferiority is often caused by feeling inferior to others and lacking self-confidence. This is a psychological problem, which can be improved by adjusting in the following ways:
1. Keep a good attitude. Adjust your mentality, try to accomplish one thing independently, and don't be afraid of failure. Even if you fail, you can sum up the reasons through actions, so as to improve and make yourself do better.
2. Don't care too much about other people's eyes
First of all, we should do what we can and boldly challenge what we have not done. Other people's comments are good and bad, and no one is perfect. We shouldn't care too much.
3. Establish a good self-confidence, hint in your mind that you can do it well, and formally correct your shortcomings, so as to enhance your self-confidence, set yourself some small goals and accomplish them one by one, which is also conducive to the establishment of your self-confidence, so as to live and work better.
Participate in group activities
Collective activities can increase the sense of collective honor, participate in such collective activities more, let yourself participate in the collective, feel and appreciate the achievements and honors brought by collective cooperation, and also help to improve the inferiority complex.
People should live with confidence, don't go to see what others say about you, try to enlighten themselves and go out to play with friends more. Inferiority comes from lack of self-confidence. Go and see more speakers and tell yourself that I am who I am.
In fact, high school is a wonderful time. Compared with the road after high school, this is the time when you don't need to feel inferior.
If you feel inferior because of your grades, it doesn't matter. No pains, no gains. If you work hard, you will always shine at some point in your life.
No matter what makes you feel inferior, as long as you do yourself well and keep working hard, you can certainly learn to change through hard work, because what you learn will always be yours. Only by working hard enough can we have confidence. You won't feel inferior if you have something in your head.
Come on! Believe in yourself!
Everyone will have a certain degree of inferiority. Adler said in the book Inferiority and Transcendence: "Everyone has a sense of inferiority to some extent, because we often find that our status needs to be improved. If you can bravely find the right way to overcome difficulties every time, you can get rid of inferiority complex. "