Can you stay in China for development after graduation? If not, would you like to go home with him? This may require you to stay away from your parents and relatives.
Can you accept the difference in living habits?
If you don't think about the future, just talk, then you don't have to tell your parents. After all, you are an adult.
Love begins with the love of two people. Once you have more contact, it will become a major event for both families. At this time, parents showed disapproval, and there must be their consideration. You need to know how to communicate, clearly answer their concerns and ask yourself whether you can accept and solve the problems raised by your parents.
If you understand your parents' worries and want to continue this relationship, then the first thing to do at this time is to ask the other parents if they agree with this relationship. If the other parents agree with this relationship, it will be much easier to convince them, otherwise it will be a great obstacle. And once the other parents also object, at this time, I have to consider whether it is necessary to continue this love.
Both parents are experienced people. At a certain age, they want you to fall in love and find a good home as soon as possible. In this case, since they object, there must be a reason, so we must communicate with our parents calmly, understand their concerns and answer them. Only in this way can we better pursue the happiness we want.