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The customs and habits of red and white bags are very different, so it's not rude to wrap them!
Author Xie Yuanjin, Folk Culture Research Center.

China people pay attention to reciprocity, and red and white bags are related to human accidents, which is a science. Pay attention to some basic etiquette of red and white bags to avoid rudeness.

◎ Even red packets, odd white packets.

Even wedding packages represent yes-men, and odd funeral packages are the basic principle. The number of red and white bags depends on the friendship and personal ability of both parties. In addition to referring to the general market, you can also consult your elders at home. Generally speaking, the number of libation packages should not be too much.

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◎ Avoid returning white bags.

According to folklore, it is taboo to return white bags, which will bring bad luck to those who take them back. If you want to return the white bag for some reason, the expedient measure is to leave the white bag in the funeral home and then return the original cash in the red envelope.

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◎ Signature in lower left corner

For vertical red envelopes and white bags, write the recipient in the upper right corner, congratulations or condolences in the middle, and the name of the giver in the lower left corner. Everything is simple now, but remember to sign your name in the lower left corner.

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◎ Record gifts.

Whether it's red and white bags, or gifts, flower baskets and other things other than cash received at weddings, funerals and celebrations, we should record them in detail as a reference for future gifts.