Text/Time Jun-Shuang Mu

Chen Guo, the "Goddess of Fudan", I believe many people have heard her famous words.

"Noisy, let it be noisy, I am selfish, I have no dispute."

"Only two things in life are meaningful: the first is to make yourself happy, and the second is to make more people happy."

"The so-called elegance is to follow your heart and live your own happiness."

She is the first batch of "network teachers".

As early as 20 10, after the video of her lecture was uploaded to the Internet by students, her unique lecture style and wonderful remarks made her popular on the Internet.

In 20 18, with the addition of media and short videos, she became a popular beauty teacher among online celebrities.

Some people fall in love with Chen Guo's eloquence, while others fall in love with Chen Guo's thoughts.

Some students even commented on her: "The teacher spoke so well in class that her students were very happy."

However, traffic is bound to bring controversy.

Some people call themselves "language artists" and think that what she said is too simple and superficial, and it is chicken soup floating on the surface.

Some people question her "love quotations" and think that she is single. Why does she want to talk about love?

In a speech program, she mispronounced a word, and what's more, she was questioned by netizens about her academic qualifications and true talents, and was instantly pushed to the forefront.

In just a few years, Chen Guo "fell off the altar". What did she go through?

Chen Guo, born in 198 1, is an out-and-out "new age woman".

She was born in a scholarly family in Shanghai. At a very young age, her grandmother taught her:

"Nothing can teach people to grow and mature more than life itself."

Grandpa will also say to her: "beautiful women are everywhere, but there are few beautiful women." I hope you can grow into a beautiful woman with great wisdom. "

Influenced by this environment, Chen Guo began to study literature, history and philosophy very early.

Later, she got her wish, entered Fudan University, studied philosophy, and studied for a doctorate all the way.

In 2008, after graduation, Chen Guo successfully stayed in school and became a teacher of "Ideological and Moral Cultivation and Basic Law Course".

Unlike other teachers, standing on the podium, she is as free and easy as ever.

She always likes to talk freely about all interesting things with chalk in one hand and one hand in her trouser pocket.

In the classroom, golden sentences are frequent, simple and philosophical, and often make people memorable after listening.

It is because of her frankness that many students want to live in her appearance and be contaminated with her charm.

She talked about self-love: "It is very important for others to like themselves, but it is more important to like themselves if you can't take care of both."

She talked about loneliness: "Loneliness is not suffering, but a very high level."

She talked about uselessness: "useful things can make you make a living, and useless things can make you happy."

She talked about her life confidant: "Life confidant is hard to find, and the best confidant is actually yourself."

She talked about marriage: "Marriage is the beginning of another life, and we should choose carefully. This is a responsibility to yourself and others. Then slowly learn to love yourself, love each other, love this relationship, and live from you and me into a complete us. "

Her class is more difficult to grab than the Double Eleven, and the classroom of 150 people is never absent.

Many people got inspiration and lessons from her speech, which also made her more and more famous. The number of courses played exceeded10 million.

On October 6th, 2065438+ 19/kloc-0, Chen Guo appeared on CCTV news broadcast again, and his popularity reached its peak.

From the popularity of Fudan University to the popularity of the whole network, and then to News Network.

Many people like her courses, and what they like more is her rich knowledge reserve and elegant life from the inside out.

Shylock has a proverb: cleverness is the new gender.

Being smart is a new kind of sexy.

Her thoughts are more attractive than her appearance. She lives as a beam of light and is happy steadily.

After Chen Guo became popular, amid applause, the voice of criticism gradually sounded.

When she participated in a variety show "Let's Talk" on CCTV, a small mistake made her fall off the altar.

A relatively complicated Chinese character, mào dié, appeared in the program, but Chen Guo read it as "Mao Zhi".

A stone stirs up a thousand waves. Many netizens think that although this is an uncommon word, how can a highly educated university teacher not know it?

Abuse and questioning poured in.

Even some netizens began to doubt Chen Guo's true level, and attacking her was "a disgrace to the academic circles in China".

Is pronunciation error really that important?

It is human nature to make mistakes. President of Peking University once pronounced Honghu as Hong Hao, but President Tsinghua didn't know Xian.

Chen Guo is just an ordinary person, so it is inevitable that there are unknown words.

But almost overnight, Chen Guo's teaching content was criticized as "chicken soup".

The netizen said that she didn't have any professional works, but only taught some "fast food culture", which was useless.

But what is chicken soup for the soul? What is not chicken soup for the soul? Where is its boundary?

Wang Yangming once said: "Knowing without doing is ignorance."

There is a popular saying on the Internet, "We have heard so many truths and read so many books, but we still have a hard time".

In fact, it is not because truth is useless and books are useless, but because we "know but do not act" and "act without firmness"

Too many of us are materialistic and pragmatic, trying to solve everything in one step, which leads to the lack of our spiritual life.

The real value of Chen Guo lies in returning to human subjectivity.

She showed the public the nourishment and richness of the spiritual world of human subject.

She recommended an elegant lifestyle for the public, showing the nourishment and richness of the spiritual world, which is of positive significance.

As Sa Beining said of her:

"Teacher Chen Guo subverted the inherent impression of university teachers in my mind. When young people face the world, the process of pursuing answers may be painful and confusing, but listening to teacher Chen Guo's class can give people a happy and pleasant state and let them move forward. "

For such a young scholar, I think we should encourage support, not be harsh.

Read the blackboard carefully. Is her class really just superficial chicken soup?

However, Chen Guo himself didn't care much about the controversy.

She claimed that she was an ordinary person, but one day it was suddenly known to everyone.

Since then, Chen Guo has slowly "disappeared" from the Internet and returned to his own life.

There is a rumor that she was suspended from Fudan, but it is actually a rumor that she has been teaching in Fudan.

Because even if it is popular, she has always remained awake.

She once mentioned a point in her speech:

"No matter what life you lead, there are always people who don't like you.

So what's the conclusion? The conclusion is that when you live to be yourself, some people like you and some people don't. But you'll like yourself better. "

It is not so easy to be liked all your life.

No matter how well you do it, you can hear the voice of doubt and get all kinds of negation.

A person's greatest charm is not sought by pleasing others, but acquired after living high.

It is better to please others than to live high.

Chen Guo once said: "An altar is an altar", but she has already predicted her future.

Her "history of ups and downs" floats on her intellectual knowledge and sinks on her negligence.

But no matter how ups and downs of life, she is still in it.

Before becoming a teacher, she was an active poster on bbs, and she would write long words in the middle of the night, with talent between the lines.

However, her current WB has stopped for more than two years, and various public platforms can't find her account.

Just like some time ago, Luo Xiang was attacked by bad critics, resulting in being locked up, withdrawn and hurt.

It is the truth of the current public opinion environment that people speak fearfully.

Fortunately, Chen Guo, like Luo Xiang, still knows exactly what he wants to do.

She still tries her best to prepare lessons every day so that students can better understand those boring knowledge points.

She will also drink, sing and dance with friends and share interesting experiences with you.

Fudan students said that they often see teacher Chen Guo in the canteen:

"Wearing wired headphones, I don't know if I'm listening to music, but I won't be disturbed by others. She lives in her world and doesn't care about the gossip of this world. "

Chen Guo can still live such a free and easy life. The root cause is, as she said:

"Noisy noisy, I'll do it myself. I have all kinds of customs, and I will not compete with the world. "

"If you are in full bloom, butterflies come" tells a story like this:

There is a man who likes butterflies very much. In order to get beautiful butterflies, I bought a pair of running shoes, a net, put on sportswear, ran after them for a long time, and finally caught a few in one breath.

However, butterflies struggle in fear in the net, and there is no beauty at all. They will fly away at the first chance.

Another person also likes butterflies very much. He bought some pots of flowers and put them on the windowsill. Then, he sat quietly on the sofa, drinking fragrant tea and watching butterflies flying leisurely among the flowers.

But in fact, this is still a desire, just to calm the desire.

The real free and easy is that I am in full bloom, and the butterfly loves to come or not.

If you want something, you will be disappointed; Nothing is who you really are.

I remembered Mr. Jiang Yang's translation of Rand's poem:

"I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care who I argue with; I love nature, followed by art; My hands are burning the fire of life to keep warm; The fire has gone out and I'm ready to go. "

Mr. Nan also believes that the highest state of life is: Buddha as the heart, Tao as the bone, Confucianism as the table, and an open world outlook.

The most important thing is to live a clear and satisfying life.

There are many customs, that is, you love life and dance;

Being peaceful means that you can face many situations in your life, calm and comfortable.

With soul, roots and fun, the most elegant appearance of a woman is nothing more than turning herself into a beam of light like Chen Guo.

* Author: Time Jun-Shuang Mu, born in 1990, is a slow-time columnist who thinks seriously with reason and lives calmly with attitude. Half in the shade and half in the sun.