What about a long-distance relationship after graduating from college?
After graduating from college, some couples can't work in the same city because of their own development, so they can only rely on long-distance love to maintain their feelings. However, the feelings of long-distance love are more difficult to maintain than in the same city. This sense of distance can easily lead to emotional vacillation or even disintegration, so it requires the cooperation of both parties. Let's start with the couple who graduated from college. What should they pay attention to on the road of maintaining long-distance love?
Preserve for love for a long time.
If your friend has just entered the society and the telephone bill is several times that of you, then ta is either a playboy or a long-distance relationship. It's hard for two people to meet in different places, so a phone call becomes a "red rope" to contact each other, talking about daily life, spitting out colleagues and encouraging each other ... as if ta is by your side. After talking on the phone for three or five months, it seems acceptable. What if it takes three to five years or more? Can you promise to be as patient as before? Are you willing to keep their love fresh for a long time?
Frequent changes in life in twin cities
Long-distance love only relies on telephone chat, WeChat chat, QQ chat and other means, which is far from enough to maintain feelings. It is very important to meet regularly. Then the question is, who should see who? How often do you meet? It depends on who is paying in the relationship between your and the distance between the two cities. On weekends and holidays, maybe your best friend is shopping and you are taking the train. Maybe your friend is playing online games, and you are taking the train ... as if you take the train whenever you have time. Are you willing to switch frequently in such a hard life in two cities?
Withstand all kinds of temptations around you.
If you don't meet for a long time, you will inevitably feel empty, lonely and cold, especially in various festivals. The streets are in pairs, but your other half is in other cities. At this time, your inner demon may say: Anyway, you only love ta, even if XX is interesting to you, you don't want to do anything. What does it matter to have dinner and watch movies together? It is better to admit that you are not firm enough than to admit that there are many temptations around you! Colorful world, gorgeous life, are you willing to practice golden bell burning iron cloth shirts for ta and resist all kinds of temptations? If you want a long-distance relationship to be a positive result, you must have patience, confidence and sincerity, plus the efforts of both sides.