Methods of making friends
1, learn to be good at getting along with teachers, and more teachers will help you make progress.
Many people think that it is difficult to achieve results by studying and reading on their own. However, if you get close to talented teachers and friends and discuss ways to learn from gentlemen, you can develop a noble personality; There is nothing wrong with dealing with people and things.
If the ancients wanted to aim high, they must first visit famous teachers. The purpose of seeking teachers is to cultivate noble personality. Make interpersonal communication beneficial and considerate.
2, the way of the world must be integrated, in order to achieve both ends.
Careful observation of human feelings in the world and thorough mastery of what you have learned can be flexibly applied to various modes in the world, so that your personality can reach the perfect realm of truth, goodness and beauty. This is not only conducive to the improvement of social skills, but also conducive to the balance of interpersonal relationships, and will not become a villain.
3, to learn to communicate, we must get rid of selfish desires, not selfishness.
In order to survive, people will inevitably have selfishness or selfish desires. There is no selfish realm at all. Only saints can do it, but ordinary people can't.
When dealing with all kinds of things in daily life, we must not let ourselves become slaves to selfishness, selfish interests or selfish desires. This is because selfishness was originally thought to be out of selfish desires and interests, but in fact it often backfires, and people who play with selfishness always reap the consequences in the end.
4. Learn to be willing to listen and be good at listening.
There are no omniscient and omnipotent people in the world. Therefore, listening to other people's opinions and suggestions and gathering wisdom has become an essential part of life. Since you are not omnipotent, you can't know everything, so you need to use other people's advice to make up for your own shortcomings. If you want to be popular, you must cultivate a modest heart that is willing to listen and good at listening.
5. Learn to be tolerant and considerate in life.
As the saying goes, "thousands of people have thousands of faces", the differences and particularities of people's hearts are better than people's faces. Therefore, we should respect the characteristics of others in everything. We should not judge others and measure everything by our own standards. We should be considerate of others, be patient in all things, respect the survival value of others and live in harmony with others.