A young man in Yuncheng, Shanxi, posted a manuscript online, revealing that he had recently been driven crazy by the bride price. Now he is 26 years old, saying that he has been in love with his girlfriend for six years. Now his feelings have entered a relatively stable stage, and he is going to talk about marriage soon, but he did not expect that his mother-in-law's request would directly embarrass him.
Husband and mother said that the man must have a house and a car at home, and he must still be in the city. This requires at least one million yuan, in addition to another 200 thousand bride price and three gold, plus the banquet and clothing needed for the wedding, all kinds of troubles will be millions. The young man bluntly said that he was a college student copied from the countryside. It is not easy for him to study at home, so he simply can't afford so many expenses. On the one hand, it is the girlfriend who has been in love for many years, and on the other hand, it is the bride price demanded by the mother-in-law, which directly makes the young man feel particularly anxious. Not only do I not want to give up my feelings, but I also don't want to embarrass my parents.
The helpless young man said that if there is really no way, let his girlfriend get pregnant first and then get married, so that after the uncooked rice is cooked, the other parents will not be so embarrassed. The young man told reporters that he earns 3,000 to 5,000 yuan a month and has saved less than 30,000 yuan this year. If he doesn't rely on his parents, he really can't meet his mother-in-law's requirements, but he doesn't want to embarrass his parents. The young man said that he would still communicate with the other party. If the communication fails, he will have to consider getting pregnant before marriage. Many netizens said that they could not agree with this young man's thoughts and attitudes. Netizens feel that the young man's ideas really don't hit it off. Some netizens also said, girl, you must think clearly, what should the child take if he can't get 200 thousand?
The issue of bride price has been discussed by everyone in recent years. Many people think that bride price is an old custom and should be abolished as soon as possible. Some people think that it is the recognition and attitude of the other party, so there should be a bride price. For this matter, Bian Xiao wants to say that the next days need two people to spend together. Whether it is a bride price or not, there must be a degree. Don't take happiness as the price of sacrifice! What do you think of bride price? Do you think it should be abolished?