It's hard to be born after 60. My mother is born after 60. When I was a child, I only had a meal in jiaozi during the Spring Festival, and eight people ate two catties of noodles. A relative brought a ham sausage and cut it piece by piece. Older children go to the production team to earn work points, and younger children go to pick up cow dung. With fewer cows, dried cow dung will soon be gone. A group of children ran after the cow, Niu Yi took a shit, and the children left. At that time, materials were extremely scarce and the pressure of survival was great, not to mention the pressure of life. Children in the country have a hard time, and children in the city have to go to the country and exercise endlessly. That generation is really not easy.
After 70, I caught up with the reform and opening up. The college entrance examination has resumed and everything has come back to life. Opportunities are everywhere, and no one expected to achieve so much later. Their generation is an era of opportunities everywhere, and they were born at the right time. Even Bai said, I really didn't think that I would stand on the stage of CCTV one day. Their generation studies while working. Although their material conditions were not as good as now, their mental state at that time should be more positive than now. The mental pressure is not so great, because they see that tomorrow they will be better and more hopeful than today. I have an uncle who graduated from Jiamusi University. Now talking about Jiamusi, you may not know where this place is, but after graduating from this university, he was assigned to a machinery factory and now he has become the director of a machinery factory. As long as that generation graduated from college, they are basically in high positions. Life after 70 is really good. They didn't expect that it took them only a few decades to go from obscurity to fame. The post-70s generation should be the happiest.
The post-80s claimed to be the flowers in the greenhouse. Their generation has ideals and individuality, catching up with the final dividend of reform. When I was a child, I had good material conditions and my class was not solidified. I know a few post-80s people whose diplomas are not very good, but thanks to the gift of their parents, they are now mixed into the railway system or some institutions, but it is actually quite difficult to enter the railway system and institutions now. So I said that the post-80 s are still luckier than the post-90 s. If I'm lucky, I bought a house early and should have made a lot of money now.
I always thought that the pressure of the post-90 s was a mouse pulling a shovel-the big head was behind. The dividend of reform gradually disappears, and the demographic dividend no longer exists. Coupled with the arrival of aging, the retirement age of the older generation has been postponed again and again, and the old can't get down and the new can't get up. Coupled with high housing prices, the cost of living is also rising. If you want to get married, you have to have a house. After 90, the current salary level can't afford to buy a house. With children, the cost of education is high. Say something unpleasant without parents' help. In the next 90 years, we will have to accept greater challenges. Today's families are all only children, and there are two old people at home. If there is another child, according to at least one child, those two people have to support five people, and the pressure can be imagined. It is unrealistic to want to get rich overnight after 90. The success of Malik Cloud is impossible to reproduce, and the outlook for the future is confusing at first glance. Now the post-90s life pressure is not particularly great, but I think the post-90s life pressure will be very, very great.
The pressure after 00 may be more the contradiction between the growing academic burden and the desire to play games than the pressure of real life.
Of course, every generation has its own pressure. Every generation has different living and material conditions and faces different pressures. The stress I'm talking about is more from a kind of mental stress, because in terms of material conditions, it's all above food and clothing. We can see the enthusiasm and indomitable spirit of those born after 60 s and 70 s, but we seldom see such things in those born after 80 s and 90 s, maybe we really have no motivation for the future. As for after 00, the oldest one is only 18, and the others have not finished learning. Let's have another look.
Personally, I think the post-70s are the most stressful. Because my sister is born after 70, compared with her, I think her life is very heavy and tired.
First of all, the pressure of life is everywhere.
My sister lives with her in-laws. After the country released the second child, she gave birth to a second child, two children, and an old man helped her with the children. It stands to reason that she is very happy. But she and her brother-in-law are both working-class, and they have to pay the mortgage every month, pay the custody fee to their daughter and buy milk powder for their son. Her in-laws are all rural people, and there is no pension. Only her brother-in-law has a son. My sister is also very filial to her in-laws, and the human expenses of her hometown are not small. My sister's luckiest thing now is that her in-laws are in good health and usually have some minor problems. In case of serious illness, one is that she can't afford it financially and the other is that she can't afford it. Brother-in-law is busy with work and travels every day. After my sister was busy at home, my brother-in-law felt guilty. It's really not easy for two families born after 70 to have a sense of security and little income.
Secondly, the unit is the backbone, and it is the time to pull the cart desperately.
My sister is very capable and is in charge of a very important department in the unit. She is also a strong person, and she wants to do everything better. In addition, she is a reserve cadre of the unit and is likely to be promoted again, so she works very hard and overtime is common. Because my brother-in-law often travels, my sister tries to avoid traveling so as to make time to take care of her family, which unconsciously affects her performance and makes her feel distressed, but she still tries to put her family first. She always said that if we work harder, we can create a better living environment for our children by going up a flight of stairs.
Third, the physical condition is declining.
My sister often tells me that after forty, I feel that I am getting old very quickly. It turned out that she had sporadic white hair on her head and kept asking her brother-in-law to help her dial it. Recently, she began to dye her hair. She talks too much, and if she dials again, she will become bald. She has to take care of the children at night and can't sleep well. Besides two big bags under her eyes, she is dizzy. She always says that she has no spirit. Although she has no symptoms, she is also in a sub-health state.
Fourth, I have no time and space of my own.
We went to get a beauty card together, and the beautician kept saying that her skin was in poor condition and asked her to do more care. My card is almost used up, and she still has half, because she is not available. She goes to work when she goes to work, and goes home to accompany her children after work, so she has no time of her own. She buys things online, and all she can buy online is online shopping, because it saves time and sends them home. There are old people at home, so we always have to think of each other. Sometimes we want to quarrel with our brother-in-law, but we can't bear to think of his parents. Although she never dislikes her in-laws, she sometimes says: I wish I could have my own independent space. I can cry if I want, and I can make trouble if I want. But now, she can't.
Seeing my sister's life, I feel a lot of pressure after 70.
My backhand is a compliment.
Really, I've wanted to talk about this for a long time, and it's an honor to express my views here.
The post-70s generation is my dad's generation. Although they don't have much education, they work hard. Anyway, now they have a house and some savings. Take our family as an example. My family also has a grandfather, and my mother has a brother. When we grow up, there is basically no pressure. Now, apart from giving my grandfather some living expenses, the rest are taken care of by our grandson. We get off work earlier than me, and our salary is several times higher than mine.
I don't know much about the post-80s generation, but they are all getting married soon. When buying a house after 1980, the house price is acceptable. Considering that our county is 3000-4000, the city will be a little higher, and the community a little farther from the main city will be 4000-5000. After 80s, most people who started their own businesses are on the right track, while those who didn't succeed in time now almost all have stable jobs.
After 90, they are our own, and most of them are left-behind children. Not to mention that I was born after 1990, from the current trend, house prices, prices and living standards have all gone up, the Internet has also covered a wide range, and consumption patterns are diverse.
Career, after 90, entered the society in his twenties. Young people who leave society have a good family business. If there is no family business, start a business. In the Internet age, everyone is saturated. It's hard to tell if you want a piece of the action. You work, you are not as hard as the post-70 s, not as smart as the post-80 s, not as talented as the post-00 s, my God, what will happen? Therefore, after 90, most people choose to use the Internet platform for live broadcast;
House price, when I was in college, the surrounding house price was around 5000. It soared to 12000 when I was in college. Now 12000 is still far from the main city. As far as our salary level in Chongqing is concerned, 12000 is really far away;
Prices, some people say that wages in Chongqing are low, so prices are definitely low. Wrong, all wet, not low, who said low, not all the same!
00, this generation is relatively happy. Happiness is because parents will work hard for their children and try their best to satisfy what they want. As long as I can remember, children have been attending various counseling training classes, just according to their learning skills. I don't want 20 years of experience, I want to go through it for 20 years at a time.
As a post-90s generation, our childhood was happy, because we were just children, but when we stepped out of the university campus and entered the society, we began to feel pain.
Many people describe our generation as "gnawing at the old". After graduating from college around the age of 22, most people will choose to get married at the age of 24-27. I live in a second-tier city, with a salary of 5000. Graduated at the age of 22, worked for five years, with a monthly salary of 5000. I can save 300 thousand without eating or drinking. Now our local house prices are all around 1.5 million. I want to buy a 90-flat three-bedroom down payment, let alone decorate and buy a car.
When we are sick, we can see that parents usually have several brothers and sisters in a family, and everyone can take turns to take care of each other and share the economy. In our generation, we are only children. If you don't work and take care of the elderly wholeheartedly, you won't have any income. We don't work hard and take care of the elderly. People say we are unfilial. I have experienced two severe hospitalizations of my parents. The first time, my father got cancer, and the second time, my mother fell. Economic pressure, physical domination and mental torture are extremely great. If the hospital has no money, it is waiting for death. If you don't have time to work, you will naturally have time to replace you.
It seems that when we are not weaned, even when we are still asking questions about feeding ourselves, the national policy urges us to have a second child. It seems that everyone has seen that the only son will stumble in the future, but we can have children but we really can't afford them. Older people with better family conditions can also help their children if they have a pension. If not, you have to rely on two people to carry it, and the money you earn is far from enough. Just like in the struggle, I wake up with numbers every day, and spend as much as I want.
Every stressful era is not easy, and you dare not comment easily on things you have not experienced. For the future, I don't think I will become a rich man. I just want to live better, not worse. I can give my parents a peaceful old age, and I can give my children the same family conditions as other parents. So that's what I would like to do.
I have done a lot of work. At worst, 500 yuan a month is not enough to eat. Dare not call home, dare not go home. I believe that the post-90s generation, like me in Dachuan, are struggling for survival. We have always been poor, so we are very careful. We have suffered, so we cherish the hard-won present. We are used to being scolded by the public for "gnawing at the old", and now when we grow up, we know how heavy the burden on our shoulders is. How can we work hard? So we never give up, because it is the bumps on the road that make us stronger. I don't know what will happen tomorrow and what will happen in the future. I only know that if I don't work harder today, I won't get the life I want, and I can't take care of my family. Come on after 90! Come on for the future and fight for the present.
I am also a post-70 s generation. I think we are also suffering, and life has given me a lot of pressure. We are all rural people, and neither of our parents has old-age insurance. Their generation has given birth to several children while supporting the elderly. I have a brother and sister in my mother's family and a sister in my husband's family. My mother used to be my father and mother, but now I am my father. Although I am in charge of my brother's family, I don't care less. I listen to my sister-in-law from time to time. Anyway, you can't ignore my father who gave birth to me and raised me, can you? You must buy what you should give. Besides, my husband and I have a sister in my husband's family (unfortunately, my sister was diagnosed with cancer one year after her divorce the year before last, and my husband and I have been helping for more than a year). Now she is still in the hospital. My parents don't care about anything Most of my parents are in charge of diseases. We pay (of course, we also pay, which is for her parents). My husband and I have never cared.
I am born after 70, and I feel old and lazy. As long as the desire is not strong, there is no financial pressure, fishing, playing with children and watching movies every week. My parents retired, and so did my parents-in-law. Everything is boring. It's just that children's education is really a headache. My wife and I have different educational ideas. And when it comes to study, the atmosphere at home is extremely tense. I just want to play with my child, but she always won't.
I think people of all ages are under the same pressure. People have to experience the same experience from birth to death, and any experience is indispensable. Anyone can have children and take care of the elderly. If you are responsible, you are not afraid of pressure. Just don't let yourself crush yourself. Driven by pressure.
My parents are both over eighty years old. My father said that my grandparents died early, my brother-in-law and my aunt were brought up by my father to get married and start a family, and then we raised all five of our brothers and sisters. When we were in a big group, we had to eat according to working hours, but the children didn't take any meals. Father said that our team starved to death and didn't improve the rice when we released the land. After two years, there was not enough public grain to eat. My father borrowed it everywhere to support his family and bought fine varieties. But food is also worthless. In the past, there was only one earthen house and one kitchen in my house. In addition to the pigsty house, parents have to take care of clothes, food, shelter and transportation. They also saved money to build three adobe houses and a pigsty. Two of them live on wooden floors. Later, we got married and followed the trend of the times. Don't they feel pressure?
He also said that our generation, born in the 1970s, is a family with many children. We are the youngest. We were both old when we got married. My husband earns money for our marriage. Married, we support our in-laws, raise children, build a house for ourselves, buy a house for our son and buy a car. Now that my in-laws are dead, we have to support our parents to live on their own. They are all over eighty years old. How many old people can be over eighty?
Besides, my son's generation, born in 1995, has already bought a house. Considering that we have experienced hardships, so will he. We don't want him to work as hard as our generation. He kept the money he earned and had to support his family in the future. It shouldn't be easy. We don't want to put pressure on him. Maybe he will buy a house in the future. We will earn some when we are old. Fortunately, he told us that we don't need money, and we will take care of ourselves after making money. I can't think of anything unexpected. If we are old, social security and the one-child fee should be enough for us to live in the countryside. If we are old, we will leave it to him, which will also relieve his pressure in the future.
It's not easy for people of every age. As long as they can face it hard, no matter how big the pressure is, they can survive.
I am born after 80. To say which generation is more stressed, I think the post-80s generation is more stressed.
First, family planning, the second child policy, the post-80 s family generally has only one child. Today, we are over 30 years old and have entered the threshold of middle age, because most of them are only children. Both families have to support four old people and 1-2 children, which is very stressful both economically and mentally.
Second, education reform, originally going to college is to assign jobs. When we graduate, we need to hire ourselves, so it is difficult to find a job. We have no jobs after graduation.
Third, rising prices, car loans, mortgages, and decades of slave loans are under great pressure.
The post-80s generation is trapped in the middle of the changing times.
Compared with the post-80s and post-90s generation, they are just out of school, mainly because of the heavy work pressure, but after 00, they are studying, and after 70, they will soon retire. It is time to enjoy the happiness.
Every generation has its own pressure, and every generation has its own luck and misfortune. No matter how stressful it is, I hope we can overcome it and have a happy future.
The pressure is great, but with the development and change of society, the pressure faced by different ages is different.
Let's talk about 70 years later, catching the last bus of the Cultural Revolution, and the country is also in the early stage of reform and opening up. They are the first batch of laid-off workers, the first batch of farmers who contracted land management, and intellectuals who benefited from the resumption of the college entrance examination. They are young and the country is exploring the road of reform and opening up, so some people get rich overnight and get laid off overnight. They changed from the traditional golden rice bowl and iron rice bowl.
Second, the only-child army after 1980s, whose parents were in the 1960s and 1970s, suffered a lot. After 80, he gradually stepped into middle age, which is the mainstay in the current workplace. At present, their biggest pressure is the dual pressure of the workplace and parents' pension. At work, they are the backbone, with heavy burdens, and dare not relax at all. Their parents are old and need to be looked after. There are young teenagers below, who need guidance and study to accompany them to grow up.
Third, the post-90 s all say that the post-90 s is a watershed, which is essentially different from the post-80 s thought. It is difficult to find the brand of traditional ideology and culture after 90' s, they pursue individuality and self. But the post-90s pressure comes from employment and housing. Talent competition and high housing prices make them afraid to slack off. They must work hard, break the rules and surpass their dreams. Some people say that the post-90s generation is decadent, while others say that the post-90s generation is the most creative.
This generation has caught up with the good times. In the era of rapid development of the national Internet, they were born with a lot of information on mobile phones, online shopping, Taobao, games and the Internet, which enabled them to get in touch with knowledge faster than any generation.
However, all kinds of temptations, pornography, violence and opinions on the Internet make them at a loss. They are immersed in the virtual world all day, and the pressure comes from communication with their parents, family and teachers.
The pressure after 00 is still great. From "not losing at the starting line", from prenatal education, kindergarten to various interest classes, they are almost deprived of their childhood and adolescence. After 00, the average school time of primary school students is 8. 1 hour, which is 0.6 hours more than that of post-90 s. The average school time of junior high school students after 00 is 1 1.0 hours, which is 0.4 hours more than that of those after 90. On the study day, 57.0% of "after 00" sleep less than 8 hours; On rest days, 34.5% people sleep less than 8 hours.
Therefore, no matter what age, we are all snails, and we have to bear heavy pressure wherever we go. Faced with different pressures, we can only meet the challenges head-on and cannot escape. Because there's nowhere to run!
Among the four generations, the most stressful generation should be the post-90s generation, and today's society is the time when they begin to show their great ambitions. However, employment difficulties and rising house prices have brought them considerable pressure. Most of the post-90s parents were from the 1960s and 1970s. At present, the work is relatively smooth, but most of them are inherited. Parents are employees of institutions and enterprises, and children can take over. Because of this, they have not achieved much in their careers. Some houses follow their parents, some buy old houses, and their economic ability is not strong. Their children are only born after 90, but they need to struggle on their own. A few years ago, house prices in various regions suddenly rose. The obvious example is Chongqing, where house prices have risen several times. This time is after 90, just joined the work, no savings, and no accumulated experience in thinking. Looking at the rise in house prices, I think of making money desperately. It's hard to get down when you get up, and life is very stressful. The house is the foundation of building a family, so the post-90 s generation is the most stressful in today's era.