Recently, some media have revealed that graduate students of China University of Science and Technology will hold a cross-school blind date called "Beautiful Encounter". Nearly 5,000 students from China University of Science and Technology, Hefei University of Technology, Anhui University, Anhui Agricultural University, Anhui Medical University, Anhui University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, Anhui Jianzhu University, Hefei College and Hefei Normal University came to find true love. Looking through the past news, it is not difficult to find that it is not the first time for college students to have a group blind date, but we can't help but ask, is it reliable?

Can I fall in love during school? In different times, the public has different answers to this question. In the early days, it was generally believed that dating was absolutely forbidden in schools. With the gradual opening of social thought, human beings have been unable to stop college students from falling in love, so the school changed from opposing to not advocating, but explicitly banned marriage at the undergraduate level. In today's desperate society, it is difficult to find a partner without a good father, a house and a car. Parents are afraid that their children will not find the other half after they leave the society and become single women, so both students and parents have a kind of "left-behind phobia". So everyone wants students to fall in love in college, which is relatively simple and has a high success rate. Therefore, the bottom line of college love has been lowered, and encouragement has never been advocated. However, we still have to look at this problem rationally.

Love can exercise students' emotional intelligence and improve their personality. The process of love, from courtship to waiting, from establishing relationship to in-depth communication, needs proper choice, judgment and response, otherwise love will encounter setbacks or come to an abrupt end. Therefore, how to balance feelings and how to properly face emotions and skills is a problem that college students must face in love, and it is also a good opportunity to exercise EQ. At the same time, it is inevitable that there will be problems such as breaking up in love. How to break up peacefully and how to get through the sad stage after breaking up is very important for improving students' personality. However, we should also see some problems in college students' love: too much pursuit of romantic forms, taking money as a "deep-water bomb", which should be emotional investment, has been replaced by money; Regard love as the whole of life, even forget their studies, which leads to college students' love can't stand the test of wind and rain, and finally go their separate ways, with few successes.

Whether "college students' collective blind date" is reliable, good or bad, can not be generalized! However, the main task of college students is to study. They should enrich themselves through cultural knowledge, shape themselves, devote more time and energy to study, and let themselves master more cultural knowledge on campus.