First, the principle of equality.
Equality is the premise of establishing good interpersonal relationships. In communication, we should adhere to the principle of equal communication and evaluate ourselves correctly. We should not only look at our own advantages and disadvantages, but also respect each other's personality, hobbies and customs. Don't blindly feel inferior, respect others' self-esteem and emotions, and don't look at people to order.
Second, the principle of sincerity.
Sincerity is the foundation of being a man and the embodiment of good moral character. Think sincerely, match words with deeds, and abide by maxims in order to win the support of others. When you really know someone, honesty is very important. No matter who you associate with, college students should abandon hypocrisy and keep consistent in their interactions. Only in this way can we continue to communicate with others and consolidate and develop interpersonal relationships. Being honest with others is the most valuable and important principle in interpersonal communication.
Third, the principle of tolerance.
Tolerance is the expression of optimism, self-confidence, firm will and broad mind. Tolerance is not to lose yourself, but to give others with a broad mind on the basis of adhering to principles and self-love, so that others and themselves can be happy every day. Tolerance is the key to interpersonal communication.
College students' interpersonal skills;
(1) Respect others.
In interpersonal communication, always remind yourself, hint at yourself, treat others equally, and be good at discovering the shortcomings of others, so that interpersonal communication will be smoother and less frustrated. No matter how humble the person you associate with, how obscene the image is, how strange the words and deeds are, and how unacceptable the hobbies are, you can always respect him and put him on an equal footing with you, and you will gain his respect for you.
(2) Listen and respond appropriately.
Listening is embodied in not interrupting others' conversation at will, and politely changing the topic or ending the topic when others are talking aimlessly. When expressing your different opinions, you should first recognize the ideas of the parties concerned, and then put forward your own opinions politely, so as to avoid conflicts and express your opinions without hurting each other's relationship. When communicating with others, listen carefully and give appropriate feedback and response from time to time. Listening shows respect, understanding and acceptance.
(3) Learn to praise sincerely.
Praise should be sincere, neither flattering nor flattering. Everyone wants to be praised and appreciated by others. Boldly giving praise or recognition from the internal and external points of classmates around you will bring happy experiences to each other and close the relationship with classmates. Don't exaggerate when praising, don't be irrelevant, don't be hypocritical, don't say good things to people's faces and speak ill of people behind their backs.