First, delay your studies. If two people study together in school for the sake of being together, it's that the drunkard's sake is not the wine. Learning is to experience a beautiful meditation, not to learn. Time passes slowly in the pushed books. It can be seen that love slows down the pace of time. Second, waste experience and money. A man and a woman in love are holding hands on the campus path by the lake of Liu Yang. It has become a romantic landscape. But men and women in love often waste too much time in falling in love. There are many opportunities to take exams, compete and exercise their abilities in universities, and active participation is of great help to improve a person's quality. Moreover, as a college student and a veritable consumer, parents worked hard to raise their children and finally sent them to the palace of the university. If such precious money and time are wasted, independence is too much: an innocent girl is of course a romantic scenery. However, if you rely too much, you will lack independent ability. Especially girls who are in love will be dependent on boys. Fourth, they are easy to stray: the interpersonal orientation of falling in love is very strong, because when they fall in love, they only look at you and ignore the communication with their classmates, which makes them easy to stray. Fifth, I am prone to psychological obstacles: whether it is the suffering of lovesickness. Or the pain of lovelorn, it is easy to produce psychological barriers of inferiority. In addition, college students often can't correctly understand love. However, they mistake goodwill for love and talk about lotus love for comfort. Love and marriage are two different things, and only love is supreme. And because of the immaturity and instability of college students, it is easy to go to extremes. There are countless college students online dating, and it is not uncommon for female college students to have money. And form an ironic gray culture. We are not alarmist, nor are we advocating asceticism. The purpose of today's debate is to understand and solve problems from reality. We hope that when college students taste love wine, they can taste real coffee, be more sober and calm! 1, falling in love should never be a burden of study. 2. Many things of college students are spontaneous because of their immaturity, including falling in love. Caused a lifetime tragedy, or affected a lifetime mate choice. 3. There is a big gap between the school environment and the social environment, and the success rate is very low. 4. It is difficult for a college student who has no rational control to master the ship of love. The love of a person without rational control is definitely a fiasco. Such college students had better not fall in love in a hurry. What are the aspects of rationality? Before you are ready to fall in love, please think about the following questions, which must be considered in a successful relationship. 2. Has your personality matured? Love is a kind of interpersonal relationship, the closest interpersonal relationship; Love is your whole personality state facing another personality state. The success of love is related to personality status. Excessive self-centeredness, disregard for other people's feelings, strong vanity and inner insecurity are all enemies of a healthy personality. When your personality is mature, it will be very smooth to enter love, because mature people know their feelings and those of others, and mature people can confidently grasp the boat of love. Do you have any misunderstanding about love? If you have the following ideas, you'd better think calmly by yourself. Love is all I have! Love can change everything! You love me, you should give me everything! True love only comes once! At the sight of each other's shortcomings, love disappears! Conflict in love is a bad thing! There are many similar views. 4. Have you considered the factors related to love? Love and study, love and family, love and material foundation, love and sex, love and marriage, love and children, love and friendship, etc. They are all contradictions in love, and they will be challenged in the process of love. Only when they are handled well can they have a better relationship. If you don't know what to do when you see these problems, stop talking and grow up quickly! If you know the above questions, I think your love will be very successful. Some students may scoff at this. Is it so complicated that it is still called love? Then I'll tell you, of course, love can be matured according to experience, and it can be grasped at the expense of pain, tears and lovelorn, but don't forget what is your main task in coming to college? You can still fall in love after graduation, but your undergraduate university can't start over. This is a big economic account, you must make it clear. If you neglect your studies in college because of love, because love reduces the vast world you should experience to two people's space, I firmly tell such a classmate: be careful of being hurt by love! First of all, as a college student, I should be able to bear the pressure of love. Secondly, college students falling in love can arouse their sense of responsibility. Third, the university is a small society, and all reasonable things can happen. Therefore, the advantages of college students falling in love outweigh the disadvantages.