First of all, I will help you analyze the psychological causes and development track of your favorite teacher, and then give you some suggestions and tell you what to do.
Worship psychology and its development track
When I was a student, it was not uncommon for girls to secretly love male teachers and like their own teachers. Girls are generally precocious than boys of the same age, and most of the boys around them are childlike. Teachers are more mature, knowledgeable and knowledgeable than the male students around them.
So female students often have a crush on a male teacher. In fact, this is a kind of worship psychology, an illusion psychology, and it is not true love between men and women. Usually, after girls grow up physically and mentally, their secret love and affection for teachers will gradually fade with the passage of time.
I give you advice from three aspects, hoping to help you.
1, academic priority, don't affect learning.
Since you are a student, your main job is to study. You should focus on your study, and don't affect your study because you like the teacher. I want to be a conscientious teacher, and I don't want you to affect your studies because you like him.
To prioritize, you need to understand what is the most important thing as a student at present, and you can't delay your study because you like the teacher, which is not worth the candle.
2, divert attention, learn to control emotions.
Contact more friends of the same age, enrich your spare time, and stop focusing on your favorite teacher. Divert attention and pay less attention to this teacher.
Learn to control your emotions, and don't let the emotions like teachers spread and develop. After all, you are still a student, so you should have a sense of importance. You have to understand that this kind of feeling is just a worship plot, not true love.
3, like to rest assured, the current driving force
Since you like that teacher, that teacher must have advantages and qualities that attract you. Then learn the advantages and strengths of teachers, improve themselves, enrich themselves, and let themselves grow up healthily.
Hide love in your heart, take it as the driving force to move forward on the road of life, and build an excellent self. This is the best reward for you, teachers and parents. When you are excellent, grow up and look back, you will thank yourself for your efforts.
Generally speaking, it is a common phenomenon and a sensitive topic for female students to like individual male teachers. If we guide it correctly and treat it reasonably, then this kind of love can be transformed into motivation and can turn it into positive energy. If it is not handled properly, it will affect the relationship between teachers and students and affect students' physical and mental health and studies. Both students and teachers need to be vigilant, and there should be no cross-border psychology and behavior.