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The most beautiful appearance of love is that two people share a room, eat three meals in four seasons, want to study with you, sit side by side, lie prone when tired, look at your serious appearance, want to have dinner with you, want to bring you food, look at your delicious food, giggle at me and want to walk with you and hold hands.

Listen to you talk about the trivia of the day, step on your shadow, look at your angry appearance, and want to watch a love movie with you in spring. Sitting in the last row, secretly watching the love of the couple in front of the university. Although there is no trivial flow, it is simple and happy. But how to get rid of the bill in college? How can it matter?

First, broaden the social circle

The premise of taking off the order is that there is a source of the opposite sex, that is, expanding the circle of friends and making more different friends. The survey results show that in universities, the main sources of friends are classmates or classmates, friends' introductions, club activities, online friends, etc.

Therefore, if you want to get rid of the order quickly, you must first start from the people around you, actively participate in class activities, and serve as the class Committee, so that more students can know themselves. Secondly, you can join a student union or a mass organization, so that you can not only know your seniors and sisters, but also make like-minded friends.

In addition, you can learn more about the opposite sex by playing games, fellow villagers and alumni groups. In short, if you want to take off the order, you must definitely take the initiative to "attack". Don't be bored with your roommate all day. Roommates are not of the opposite sex. No matter how good the relationship is, it is just a buddy or sister, and can't be an object!

Second, attract the opposite sex.

It is not enough to have a source of the opposite sex. We need to release100000 volts like Pikachu to attract the opposite sex.

1. appears

Appearance is the first impression of others on us. Many scientists' research shows that the seeds of love often germinate within a few minutes of their first meeting.

We can't get close to the good-looking people we see at first sight. The so-called love at first sight is all about color.

University is a plastic surgery hospital, and four years is enough to transform many people. Therefore, if you want to take off the bill, both boys and girls should pay more attention to their dressing and find their own style. Girls can learn to make up and wear: boys should wear simple and generous clothes, which can be matched with hairstyles and accessories.

2. Inherent

It is often not enough to have a beautiful appearance, because we often say that "it starts with face value, falls on talent, and is loyal to character", so we need to enhance our charm by enriching the inside. Intrinsic mainly refers to a person's inherent advantages, and the peaches mentioned here are only a person's temperament and talent.

What temperament shows in society is a person's inner personality charm from the inside out, and then the sublimation of a person's inner charm quality. There are many personality charms, such as self-cultivation, morality, behavior, treating people with things, feeling of talking and so on. They are elegant, noble, quiet, gentle, unrestrained, informal and direct.

So how to change or improve your temperament? The first way is to increase your own connotation or knowledge, such as reading more books. Those who don't like reading can watch some old movies or pay attention to some valuable current events.

The second method is to cultivate hobbies. Interest is the starting point and source of ability, talent and achievement. Different interests have different characteristics, which can often subtly change our temperament or character. Such as flower arrangement, painting and calligraphy will make us quiet and gentle; Basketball, football and other sports make us outgoing and bold.

Third, communication.

After attracting the opposite sex to our side, we entered the communication stage. The main purpose of chatting between two people is to get information, find topics and arouse each other's interest.

Therefore, the first chat can be more appropriate and the scope of chat is wider. However, if you already know each other well before chatting, you can directly talk about the topics of interest to each other. If you don't know what to talk about for the first time, you can start with the other person's avatar, signature, circle of friends, space chat, etc. With the topic, you can expand the topic and increase the frequency of chatting after learning the information of the other party.

But when chatting, we should pay attention to keeping a sense of mystery and distance, don't ask and answer, and don't agree to each other's requirements too early. The harder it is to get something, the higher its status in people's minds, the greater its value and the greater its attraction to people. The value of things that are easy to obtain or have been obtained is often ignored by people.

Fourth, action.

Never just talk on paper, especially girls hate boys' words and deeds. After understanding for a period of time, you can pay proper attention to your behavior.

For example, students can share their seats with each other, help each other hand in their homework and buy breakfast by the way. Usually you can make an appointment to study together, and you can eat by the way after the study. When you make an appointment with the other person for the first time, you can bring your friends to avoid embarrassment. After such a serious excuse comes near once or twice, you can try to ask the other person for a walk or a movie directly, but you must pay attention to the time and place and don't embarrass the other person.

Five, the use of psychology to produce love

Love begins with a heartbeat. Learning to use the following psychological effects can bring our relationship closer. Suspension bridge effect: refers to the fact that when a person crosses the suspension bridge in fear, his heart will involuntarily accelerate.

If he happens to meet another person at this time, he will mistakenly think that the heartbeat caused by this situation is the physiological reaction that the other person makes him move, so he breeds love for the other person.

With the help of the suspension bridge effect, let the other side move, "love, fuck us." Riding a roller coaster, playing jumper, watching horror movies, going to haunted houses and other exciting entertainment activities can make both men and women's hearts beat faster.

In the process of getting along, girls will want to rely on them because of their lack of security. At this time, boys must not be afraid! Be brave, don't laugh at the girl's cowardice, try to care about her, use more language to divert her attention and tell her, "It's okay, I'm here" to alleviate her fear. When she is afraid, she can hold hands, hug her and comfort her at will.

After the date, the girl will definitely remember your meticulous care and protection and love for you.