If you don't, or you don't talk a lot, then people won't consider you, but they won't consider you at all. You just passed her by.
Don't say you like it, even if you are an ordinary friend, I don't want to reply to anything you say, not to mention people have work to do. Do you think what you did was touching, great or something?
If you are poor in all aspects, then step by step, make friends first, and let people treat you as friends first. After understanding, you will know people's preferences, do what you like properly, slowly show your advantages, and let people slowly change their views on you, and a little goodwill will create opportunities.
To tell the truth, just like you, it's hard to catch up with someone you like or someone with a gap. Simply asking you to chase the average girl, you probably can't catch it.