Everyone has been working hard in a certain direction, and in the end, if they don't reach their goals, they will be a little lost. At this time, you need to know yourself and enlighten yourself. We want to attend the party. Like many hard-working athletes, we all want to get good grades, but sometimes only a few can get good grades. So learn to comfort yourself.

As far as I know, the teacher is not so concerned about whether the students taking the postgraduate entrance examination are party member. Moreover, whenever you see such an idea, you can ask yourself, besides making yourself uncomfortable, is this idea useful to yourself? If not, try to change your mind.

2. What kind of people we are is the most important.

Whether party member is important or not is different for different people. Therefore, from this perspective, party member actually means more responsibility and dedication. Of course, party member's identity may be valued in some aspects, such as some state-owned enterprises and institutions. But other employers may be more concerned about who we are.

At present, the proportion of college students joining the party is not high. So many non-party member graduates can still find their favorite jobs. Therefore, how to improve your ability, let yourself grow up as soon as possible, and how to better face the setbacks in life is the most important. Let's take the frustration of not joining the party as an opportunity to get out of trouble, not be affected, and give full play to their subjective initiative.

3. The event is not the most important thing, but the most important thing is our view of things.

Sometimes, when we are young, we often regard a small matter as a big deal. Just like you fail to join the party now, you feel that you can't see the bright future. This is normal. Because after all, you are still young. You can't help exaggerating the bad effects of something. But if we have been entangled in this matter and attribute all the setbacks to it, then its influence is really likely to continue. Events are never the most important, the most important thing is our view of things.

Many people may fail more than not joining the party, but we are more likely to come out, not afraid of setbacks and brave to face challenges. Do what we can and don't dwell too much on what has happened. At the same time, we should also learn to change the pessimistic interpretation style. For example, the postgraduate entrance examination may not fail. Really failed, just wait for the result. When you see these thoughts bothering you, you might as well add "I have an idea now" before these thoughts. This is not true, it will help you pull yourself back to reality and reduce your anxiety about the future. You can also imagine other possibilities and so on.

Ok, that's all for today's sharing. I hope it helps you. If you have any other comments or opinions, please leave a message in the comments section below. I will reply one by one when I see it. Thank you, everyone. Stay tuned.