? I will officially graduate in half a year, but my parents found a job for themselves early. By rights, Liu Mei should be very happy, but Liu Mei is not. Liu Mei is a junior in a vocational college in Quanzhou. After the Spring Festival, the school arranged for students to graduate and practice. During this time, students are also trying to find their own "in-laws". To Liu Mei's dismay, her boyfriend Xiao Zhang hasn't found a suitable job yet. Although Liu Mei's parents found her a job as an accountant in her hometown of Zhangzhou, Liu Mei didn't want to go back to Zhangzhou alone, and she didn't want to live separately from Zhang in the future, so she hoped to stay in Quanzhou to find a job and work together. In the face of parents' urging, Liu Mei felt helpless, but didn't know how to explain it.
In fact, as graduation approaches, many recent college graduates are faced with the same contradiction as Liu Mei, that is, "love goes left and work goes right". However, in the face of job hunting after graduation, some "brave" college students decided to "join hands in job hunting" and find jobs together. However, for these job-hunting "couples files", most employers have expressed doubts and issued an "unwelcome" voice. College students' couples want to "fly together" to apply for a job, and they are faced with the situation of being blocked everywhere!
Girls take "escorts" to apply for jobs.
"At this year's job fair, I often see college girls who have just graduated with boyfriends to apply." Wang Bingxiang, the personnel manager of a handicraft factory in Quanzhou, was puzzled by this strange phenomenon at the job fair. Wang Bingxiang said that it is absurd for students to find jobs by themselves with "flower guards".
At several Quanzhou talent exchange meetings last week, the reporter saw what Wang Bingxiang said: At the job fair, some boys simply became waitresses for girls, helping them carry bags, submit resumes and squeeze places; Some girls are timid. Seeing that the recruitment requirements of enterprises are high and there are many onlookers, they dare not go forward. Boys help with ideological work, while girls push forward behind. During the interview, I also leaned in from time to time to help introduce a few words.
As for why it is necessary to bring a boyfriend when looking for a job, many girls say that they can spend more time with their boyfriends and have more experiences. In addition, if possible, they'd better find the same unit to work with. A junior girl from Quanzhou Institute of Technology told the reporter: "In fact, my boyfriend and I have both found internship jobs, but we just don't know if we can stay in the future, and we are not in a company. It's a pity. Let's go shopping together, maybe there will be a better chance. "
A girl surnamed Lin, who graduated from a higher vocational school in Xiamen, said that her boyfriend is from Quanzhou and found a job in Quanzhou, so she came, hoping to be with him. She said that her boyfriend is a local, and asking him to go to the job fair together can also be courageous, and at the same time give himself a check and be a staff officer.
Many college couples go hand in hand to apply for jobs.
"Although there is no explicit stipulation that university couples cannot enter the company at the same time, the company is still worried that university couples are unwilling to recruit at the same time because of emotional factors affecting their work." Wang Bingxiang suggested that college couples should put aside their emotional burdens and deal with their jobs first. Moreover, if you really want two people to enter the same company, it is better to interview separately and conceal the fact that they are lovers.
At the Quanzhou talent exchange meeting, the reporter met Liu Mei and her boyfriend who submitted their resumes together. Liu Mei said that he hopes to find a job in Quanzhou before the Spring Festival, preferably in the same company as his boyfriend. If not, he can also work in Quanzhou. Even if it is bitter, it will be happier and the score will be better. Liu Mei said that she cherished this relationship with her boyfriend. Although her parents found her a job in Zhangzhou, she didn't want to leave alone unless her boyfriend also went to Zhangzhou. "To separate the two places is to give up this relationship." Liu Mei said he wouldn't give up.
In the interview, the reporter found that many couples of recent college graduates will go to the talent market to find jobs together, and some even ask them to enter the same company. Wang Bingxiang said that the company had received two resumes and took a fancy to this girl. As a result, the boyfriend who came to apply together gave hope and recruited him. After being rejected by the company, the girl said that she couldn't come to work and wanted to "make progress with her boyfriend", which made him very embarrassed.
Ye Bingwen, a senior at a university in Quanzhou, also hopes to work in the same company as his girlfriend. He said that employers are now worried that college students are impatient, unstable and easy to change jobs. If male and female friends go together, this contradiction can be alleviated to a certain extent, which can stabilize the morale of the army and let employees work with peace of mind. So when I was looking for a job, I analyzed this truth with the recruiter, hoping to admit him and his girlfriend together.
Embarrassed 1: Most enterprises refuse "husband and wife partner"
Although I submitted more than 10 resumes, Ye Bingwen and his girlfriend have not found a job that is willing to accept them at the same time. Xiao Ye said that although he often elaborated on the benefits of two people working together, he obviously didn't impress his employers, and he was used to being rejected by enterprises. However, there are still half a year before graduation, and he still has time and opportunities.
As for Xiao Ye's infatuation, it is difficult for many corporate recruiters to understand the behavior of forcing couples to join the company together. Manager Chen, the human resources manager of a gift company in Fengze, said that even if the applicants are excellent, most enterprises are generally unwilling to accept two people to enter the company at the same time. He said that recent college students are still relatively young and their feelings are actually unstable. When two people enter the company, there is no guarantee that they will feel at ease. Moreover, it is easy for college couples to form a "small circle" when they enter the company together, and it is easy to distinguish between public and private, and family affairs and business affairs will always be mixed together in the end. In addition, young people are impulsive and impulsive. If two couples enter the company at the same time, once one of them is in a wrong working state or wronged, it will easily affect the other party, or even resign or jump ship together, and the enterprise will lose more.
In several talent exchange meetings, the reporter randomly interviewed 10 corporate recruiters. Almost all the interviewees said that they don't like college couples applying at the same time, and two of them said they are willing to accept it, but only if the college couples are excellent, they are all talents in different positions needed by enterprises, and they are not in the same department and hold different positions.
Embarrassment 2: Student couples are "tied behind their hands" when looking for a job.
In addition to saying "no" to college students' couples in job hunting, college students' couples also face the problems of "tying their hands and feet" and "restraining each other" when they are interviewing for jobs together.
Looking for a job with her boyfriend, Liu Mei said she was subject to many restrictions. She can accept some jobs, but her boyfriend can't. Some companies take a fancy to themselves, but not necessarily their boyfriends. It's not realistic to join the same company together. Liu Mei said that her personality is extroverted, while her boyfriend is introverted. A trading company wants to recruit sales, and she goes to apply with her boyfriend. As a result, she was admitted, but her boyfriend was eliminated. The boyfriend felt humiliated and made everyone unhappy. Liu Mei told reporters that she often gives her boyfriend some advice, and her boyfriend will help her analyze many problems. One minute she said the job couldn't go on, and the next she said the company couldn't be a "flower protector".
"At this year's job fair, I often see college girls who have just graduated with boyfriends to apply." Wang Bingxiang, the personnel manager of a handicraft factory in Quanzhou, was puzzled by this strange phenomenon at the job fair. Wang Bingxiang said that it is absurd for students to find jobs by themselves with "flower guards". When two people disagree, it is easy to disagree and feel tied to each other. "
Xiao Gong, a junior from Jinjiang, told reporters that he and his girlfriend go to apply together, and they don't have to go to the same unit together, but there will be constraints in finding a job together. For example, the last time a company in Xiamen was very interested in itself, they all talked about some details such as treatment. But as soon as my girlfriend heard that she was going to travel frequently and had a task, she pulled him to the corner. The recruiter knew what was going on at a glance, saying that you should go back and wait for the notice, and then there was no news.
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College students "go into battle lightly" in job hunting.
Yang Sen, who graduated from Xiamen University the year before last and now works as a sales manager in a foreign trade company in Quanzhou, told reporters that he was also very impulsive when he just graduated, hoping to join the same company with his girlfriend. Later, after some blows, he also wanted to understand that love is love and work is work, so he must not be confused. Yang Sen said that now he and his girlfriend work in different companies and have their own independent space, but they are happier. In his view, the "couple file" job search is actually a very immature performance. When feelings and work are mixed together, they are easily restricted by emotions and often fall into a misunderstanding. Not only can the work be done badly, but the feelings are also difficult to "keep fresh"!
"Although there is no explicit stipulation that university couples cannot enter the company at the same time, the company is still worried that university couples are unwilling to recruit at the same time because of emotional factors affecting their work." Wang Bingxiang suggested that college couples should put aside their emotional burdens and deal with their jobs first. Moreover, if you really want two people to enter the same company, it is better to interview separately and conceal the fact that they are lovers.
Some corporate recruiters also reminded that even if the other party comes to accompany them during the interview, it is best not to show up; If you are present, don't "interrupt", lest the applicant give the recruiter the impression that you need to rely on and lack independence, which is very unfavorable to the application.
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