The characteristics of college students' love psychology. In recent years, with the development of society and the change of ideas, it is a common trend for contemporary college students to fall in love. Therefore, to explore the characteristics of college students' love psychology, let's first look at the characteristics and related materials of college students' love psychology.

The characteristics of college students' love psychology are 1 (1) idealization. An important feature of college students' love is idealization. With the maturity of the body, young people have a feeling of curiosity and admiration for the opposite sex, especially after entering the university, many people are eager to have love. However, in the ivory tower where college students' life and interpersonal relationship are relatively simple, most of them still rely on their parents economically and lack social realism.

When you get to know love deeply, you are just immersed in the world of flowers and flowers and are blindly optimistic about the future. More importantly, you are not fully prepared for the difficulties and setbacks you will face. Finally, when he encountered various problems in his life, Lao Yan scored a lot. This over-idealized college student is often easily surpassed by reality.

(2) Emotional enthusiasm. Because college students are in the vigorous period of physical development, their emotions are impulsive and manifested in love. They are often more enthusiastic than implicit, and the process of love is also ups and downs. Because there are too many emotional elements, the possibility of breaking up is greatly increased, and it is easy to fall into an emotional trough after falling out of love.

(3) Seek spiritual supplement and emotional comfort. The atmosphere of study and life in universities is quite relaxed for college students, where there is greater freedom and independence. Students with aspirations are at home in such an environment, but some college students are far away from their parents and have just entered the society, and they are at a loss for a while.

There are also some college students who have no lofty ideals, are spiritually empty and are confused about the future. Therefore, some people want to find a "confidante" to fill the empty heart and place their feelings; Some people think that love is an important goal they pursue when they enter school. It can kill lonely nights and weekends, enrich college life and attract the envious eyes of some students. Some people just want to satisfy their vanity,

It is incompetent to think that others have friends of the opposite sex and they don't; Some girls think that only boys can show their charm if they pursue it. The more sought after, the more amazing I feel. Even some men fall in love with playing with women's psychology, while others blindly follow suit.

It is understandable that some college students want to motivate themselves by falling in love and repay the love of the opposite sex with excellent grades. However, love is serious and is regulated by emotion. Correct and healthy love may become the driving force to catch up with the advanced in study and work, while distorted or even abnormal "love" will become unbearable pressure.

The characteristics of college students' love psychology are high purity, purity, beauty and sometimes even simplicity. Most students fall in love, just like the hero and heroine in Qiong Yao's works, without the pressure of real life. The first priority for men and women is to fall in love seriously. And love can never be separated from the solid' earth', and love that is divorced from real life will inevitably' see the light and die'. "

The second is the spiritual characteristics of college students' love. In the choice of lovers, college students pay more attention to mutual recognition on the spiritual level, and the material exchange and matching in secular life will not affect college students; College students even pursued a pure love.

The third is the conflict of college students' love. College students are facing the pressure of their own development, such as postgraduate entrance examination, employment, economy, study and interpersonal relationship. Love needs a lot of psychological energy. Academic pressure, growth pressure, especially sexual pressure are great psychological and will tests for both parties in love.

Fifth, the rationality and sensibility of college students' love coexist. When college students choose lovers, they have both emotional impulses and more rational thinking. Think more about whether the two sides are suitable, and put the feeling of being happy together in an important position. However, the planning of future life seems to be psychologically unprepared. When faced with major problems in life, such as career choice, lovers often can't be together for a long time.

Sixth, the diversification of college students' love. The traditional concept of love has been challenged unprecedentedly in today's university campus. Compared with college students in the previous twenty years, college students nowadays pay more attention to the immediacy of love, and regard love as an independent life task rather than a long-term life goal such as marriage. The diversification of love is accompanied by the development of network, which makes college students' love less serious and sacred.

The characteristic of college students' love psychology is 3 1, which has strong autonomy.

On the issue of love, female college students have outstanding personality, emotional impulse and are not limited by traditional customs. They generally don't ask their parents' opinions before or even after the relationship is established.

2. The motivation of love is simplified.

Many college students don't think too much about whether they can be together in the future, and they don't consciously realize that they should choose a lifelong partner. They value the process of love and despise the result of love. They fall in love because they need to love and be loved, mostly out of instinctive love and attraction.

Not for eternity, just to have it. It is the general psychology of college students. There are also some college students who fall in love out of conformity or vanity, and regard love as a means to enrich their after-school life, relieve loneliness and fill emptiness. It can be seen from these that college students' love psychology is not mature enough. Lack of deep understanding of feelings.

3. Self-control and frustration resistance are weak.

Once in love, female college students are not always good at controlling their emotions, letting them indulge at will, lacking rational control ability, relying too much on the object of love, and suffering a little twists and turns. Once love is frustrated, it will be out of control and unable to extricate itself, which will have a serious impact on learning.

Due to the lack of mature experience in getting along, many college students can't accommodate each other and deal with all kinds of problems encountered in the process of love calmly and rationally. It can be seen that it is an urgent problem for college students in love to learn and face rationally to straighten out the relationship between study and love and correctly handle the problems encountered in love.

4. Love is immature and unstable.

At present, college students' love is younger and the number is on the rise. People begin to fall in love in the first grade, which is not an isolated phenomenon. Some students even fall in love as soon as they enter school. Because of their shallow social experience and simple thinking, many juniors are not satisfied with their life goals and needs.

There is still no clear concept, which leads to simple, naive and immature treatment of love. In terms of mate selection criteria, appearance is often emphasized, while internal factors are ignored. In the way of love, the form is often emphasized, while the content is ignored. In love behavior, the process is often emphasized and the result is ignored; Value pleasure over responsibility. The immaturity of this love problem,

In addition, during their school years, their economy is not yet independent, their feelings and thoughts are changeable in the process of love, and they lack the ability to properly handle emotional entanglements in love, which easily leads to the periodic interruption of love, or the choice of love objects is uncertain, and the success rate of love is very low. On the issue of dealing with lovelorn,

Most college students can treat it rationally and get through this psychological dark period safely. Most college students treat the problem of lovelorn love through "talking to friends" or "rational thinking", adopt a tolerant attitude towards themselves and each other and respect each other's choices. But there are still some students who can't get rid of the "emotional crisis".

Some lose confidence and give up the pursuit of love; Some are devastated and give up on themselves, thinking that everything has lost its meaning; Some regard each other as enemies, wantonly vilify each other, and even make extreme behaviors that hurt each other. Therefore, college students need to know some common sense of love and learn to face their emotional problems with a mature attitude.