Second: the ability to adapt to the environment. Adaptability is the embodiment of a person's comprehensive value, which is closely related to his ideological and moral character, creative ability, knowledge and skills. After graduation, college students are faced with finding a job, taking part in a job and then settling down. They are constantly changing, so college students should cultivate their ability to adapt to the social environment. Only in this way, even in a relatively difficult environment, unfavorable factors can be transformed into favorable factors, thus laying a solid foundation for the success of college students' future career.
Three: social skills. Interpersonal communication is a science, which exists in any corner of society. It is the crystallization of people's practical experience, which cannot be learned in textbooks. College students must have this ability, which is related to the problem of finding a job in the future. If college students want to have good social communication ability, they should boldly grasp all kinds of communication opportunities and cultivate their psychological connection with others. At the same time, we should be honest and trustworthy and have equal personality.
Four: language expression ability. Language expression ability is another important ability that college students must possess. Learning, working and socializing all need the ability of language expression. Social competition is the competition of talents, and one must have strong language expression ability. Only in this way can he be invincible in the market competition. To have this ability, contemporary college students should first dare to speak, which is also the premise of practicing eloquence; Secondly, you should have something to say (you need a wide range of knowledge), which is the basis of practicing eloquence; Thirdly, be good at speaking, pay attention to what to say on what occasions and pay attention to the appropriateness of language, which is the key to practicing eloquence. Therefore, college students should take time out to read relevant literary works and eloquence model essays and do more exercises to exercise and improve their language expression ability.
Five: hands-on ability. Practical ability is an important guarantee for transforming theoretical knowledge into practical work. For college students, whether to engage in education and teaching research, natural science research or technical management of production line after graduation. The strength of practical ability will affect the development prospect of a college student. Therefore, under the guidance of solid theoretical knowledge, contemporary college students should work hard, emphasize practice, do more practical things and improve their practical ability.
Six: competitiveness. Competitive ability is a necessary psychological feature for people to successfully complete an activity, and it is also an ability quality that college students and even human beings are pursuing. Today's society is a society with fierce competition, and the cultivation of competitiveness is particularly important. Thirdly, we college students should pay attention to the following points: first, we should realize that competitiveness is the need of our own development and social development; Second, we must realize that competition is a demonstration of strength, master more skills, be good at seizing opportunities, and dare to show ourselves in order to win in a competitive society; Thirdly, we should realize that competition is actually a test of personality, so college students must maintain a healthy and positive attitude in a competitive society in order to win.
Seven: communication skills. With the progress of modern society and the rapid development of science and technology, every college student needs to have strong communication skills. Communicative ability is the key to social interaction. A person with strong communication skills can do this job easily. Cultivating communication skills requires self-confidence and necessary skills. For contemporary college students, we should pay attention to the following points: first, we should pay attention to the reciprocity and mutual respect between the two sides in communication; Second, we should learn to look at the problem from the other side's standpoint and viewpoint, and understand the other side's ideas and viewpoints; Third, actively look for similarities in conflicts and improve communication skills. But we should pay special attention to the following points: first, make comments on others; Second, improper inquiry; The third is the tone of command; Fourth, threatening words; Fifth, arrogant attitude; Sixth, inattention; Seven is insincere.
To sum up, the above seven abilities are the abilities that contemporary college students should have. With these abilities, it really means that college students' comprehensive ability can be improved and they can easily win in a highly competitive society.