When men and women marry voluntarily, they should support each other and be loyal to each other. But things are not satisfactory. With the progress of society, the divorce rate in China is getting higher and higher. Even some scandals of marital infidelity have become people's leisure time.
Dr Yan of Yale University reported that his wife Hou had committed adultery with his male subordinate Chen Mou. According to Yan, when the global epidemic broke out this year, he was studying abroad, thinking of finishing his studies as soon as possible and returning to China to reunite with his new wife. However, in July this year, Yan went to his parents' wedding room and caught Hou and Chen Mou in bed on the spot. Yan's mother was very angry and called the police, but in front of the media, they actually publicly claimed that they were boyfriend and girlfriend. Yan's wife Hou graduated from the School of Architecture of Yale University and is now a famous architect working in Shanghai.
After learning that his wife was having an affair with others and kept a cohabitation relationship for a long time, Yan filed a lawsuit on the grounds that Hou and Chen constituted a de facto marriage and committed the crime of marriage. In fact, no matter what the result is, this incident is a great blow to Yan and Yan's parents, and it is also very unfavorable to Hou and Chen's work.
After this incident was exposed, all netizens talked about it. On the one hand, Hou and Chen violated social order and good customs, and even violated the law. What they did hurt others. On the other hand, strictness is not rational enough. When he found out that his wife was cheating, he didn't keep calm and collect evidence. So far, he has been unable to produce evidence to prove that his wife cheated. Such a real-name report is actually an injury to three people. All three people are highly educated people, and obviously they can have a better way out, but they are influenced by impulse.
People always say that marriage is the grave of love. In fact, there is no unhappy marriage, only unhappy couples. As the saying goes, twisted melon is not sweet. In marriage, you can't force both sides. Of course, this marriage ended in failure, but they lost not only their marriage, but also their respective careers, and even their doctoral degrees at Yale University were greatly reduced. In fact, cheating has long been common in modern society. Everyone clearly knows that it is immoral, but they still insist on doing it. For the so-called love, you can betray your former love.
This incident has caused a lot of noise, which is actually unfavorable to all three people. In this matter, we onlookers can only learn a lesson. First of all, husband and wife should be loyal to each other. If they don't love each other, please leave politely, which will only hurt others. Husband and wife should be good at communication. Although they are in foreign love, they have become husband and wife. It can be seen that they were in love before, but sometimes love will be lost to distance, or to a temporary impulse.
In any case, we must face love and marriage rationally, or we will be irresponsible to two people.