Experience and harvest of college students' winter vacation study.
I don't know how many times I have read the novel Ordinary World by the writer Lu Yao, and every time I read it, there is a kind of spiritual shock. This novel composes an indomitable, soul-stirring and energetic hymn to life, revealing people's self-improvement and self-confidence, struggle and struggle, frustration and pursuit, pain and joy, and telling people that suffering and frustration are just shells, and the truly broad meaning of life lies in the strong belief-"believe in yourself" embodied in endless piety and enthusiasm for life. Shao Ping and Shao An are both sons of Huang Tu. In the ordinary world, they explore their lives in different ways. They believe that their own hands can change their destiny and be tempered and sublimated in repeated sufferings. From one ordinary story to another, it also gives us a profound truth, that is, how we treat life, how we live, and our attitude and thinking about life. ...
Suffering is indeed a kind of misfortune, which will bring us material loss, physical injury and even mental blow, but from another angle, suffering is also a kind of tempering and sharpening of our body and spirit. As long as we have the confidence to face it and overcome it, it will become our precious spiritual wealth.
Suffering is indeed a fortune, which makes us ask ourselves from time to time: "What we pursue in our struggle is not only the result, but also the process of struggle." The meaning of life lies in that you can create the beauty and excitement of this process, and the value of life lies in that you can enjoy the beauty and tragic of this process calmly and excitedly.
While lamenting the suffering of "Ordinary World", we show deep love and deep affection for the land and fellow villagers between the lines of the book. The love between Shao An and Run Ye, Shao Ping and Xiao Xia, Run Sheng and Hong Mei, Shao Ping and Jinxiu, etc. The most frequently used word in the book is: dear. Dear earth, dear Shuangshui village, dear father, dear friend ... In short, all the true feelings in the world are displayed here. It is these deep loves, like great power, that support people who have suffered a lot to strive for self-improvement and keep moving forward.
Around us, a phone call from parents thousands of miles away, a congratulations from friends when they are successful, and a comfort from lovers when they are lost, all let us taste and cherish these love fragments, which are not only beautiful memories, but also treasures in our hearts. This affection, friendship and love are intertwined and become a warm love network, which always gives us warmth and strength. Because of love, the world becomes beautiful.
Ordinary World, a grand ceremony that I will cherish forever in my heart, taught me that in the face of the hardships of life, as long as I can persevere, work hard and forge ahead, I will succeed in the end. Let me know how to cherish and be grateful, and know that "life is an endless struggle!" Only when you choose your goals and feel that your efforts have not been in vain in your struggle will your life be enriched and your spirit will be forever young. "
Experience and harvest of college students' winter vacation study II
As a young head teacher, I feel a little confused when dealing with some difficult things in my class, especially for the children in the first grade of primary school. They are innocent and lovely, lively and curious, but they lack correct judgment and experience in studying in winter vacation. How to make children know themselves better, realize the correctness of the problem, and communicate effectively with these childlike children is very important to me. During the winter vacation, I once again carefully read and tasted Sun Puyuan's book "Beautiful Education", which really benefited a lot and was deeply touched. This book, like a bright light in the dark, shows me the way forward. I am no longer confused, no longer confused. A vivid example is deja vu. Teacher Sun is so patient and meticulous. She always warms every child with her ordinary and great love. Sun Puyuan is a love guru, a master who broke away from flashy love. The book "Beautiful Education" really deserves our careful reading and thinking.
There is a saying in the book: the head teacher is the lowest director in the world, but also the most important director in the world. After reading this book, I really feel this way. In the communication with parents and friends, parents often say, "Children listen to their teachers much more than their parents." Others will say, "Look, the children in this class are really like their head teacher." "This is the class led by teacher XXX." In fact, this is a kind of side influence of the class teacher on the students in his usual work, which makes the children form a set and a tendency invisibly. As Teacher Sun said: "The position of the head teacher in the eyes of primary school students is supreme, and children worship the head teacher to the point of worship. The head teacher in primary school has a great influence on students. What the head teacher advocates will lead to the class atmosphere, what the head teacher often says will become the motto of the class, the likes and dislikes of the head teacher will become the right and wrong standard of the students in this class, and the speech and manners of the head teacher will play a decisive role in the formation of students' personality and temperament. "After reading Teacher Sun's book, I realized that educating children is not just a question of teachers' dignity. The key to a harmonious relationship between teachers and students is that teachers should do everything possible to create a harmonious and relaxed atmosphere, so that children are willing to approach you and tell you their thoughts. This requires not only enthusiasm and perseverance, but also spiritual communication between teachers and students. I found from Mr. Sun what a class teacher should have first, a precious childlike innocence. Only when we become children can we understand, understand and educate our children.
In the process of education, we should give priority to respecting children. People who have been respected since childhood have strong self-esteem and self-confidence, and it is easy to form a perfect personality. However, no matter whether we are teachers or parents, we blindly hope that our children can listen to what our adults say, and we often ignore our children's needs, don't consider what their children are thinking, don't understand their situation, don't care about their self-esteem, don't understand their distress and psychological obstacles, and educate their children only by our imagination. Once the child's behavior is beyond our expectation, or the child does not follow our requirements, we may be dissatisfied with the child and even criticize the child. Teacher Sun Puyuan told us that "punishment is the root of educational failure". The result of punishment makes children who study hard feel inferior, children who often have problems give up on themselves, naughty children lose their self-esteem and self-confidence, and such children lose their childhood happiness. So, don't criticize children for making mistakes? Don't! Without criticism, it is tantamount to conniving at children's bad behavior, but when criticizing, we must clearly explain its harm and tell children why they can't do this, and what is wrong with others, themselves and the collective.
To educate children, teachers should have a tolerant heart. Tolerance is different from connivance, and the premise of tolerance is understanding. Educator Tao Xingzhi once said: If you want to be a child's teacher, you must first be a child. Naughty is a characteristic of children and a normal phenomenon. Mistakes are inevitable. We can't limit him. We should look for the shining place in his naughty body and look at the child's naughty with appreciation. At this time, our work will become active and relaxed, and we can even get great fun from it. Of course, teachers' tolerance for students is not unprincipled accommodation and concession to students, but based on students' understanding of mistakes. Tolerance for children who have realized their mistakes is an effective way to motivate children to educate themselves. Teacher Sun Puyuan taught us many tolerant methods to comfort timid children who made mistakes. Give the children who know they are wrong a step down, discover the advantages of naughty bag with microscope, give the melodramatic students a space to exist, and tolerate the repetition in the process of students' progress …
Let us remember that Mr. Sun "tolerance and appreciation make education more beautiful, and love and wisdom make education go further." Classic words, let us give children tolerance, appreciation, love and wisdom, teachers love students, students feel happy, teachers will feel happy; Similarly, we will also get the most sincere love from students. This is the happiness of all class teachers, and this kind of education is also the most beautiful education.
Experience and harvest of college students studying in winter vacation (3)
When I first recommended reading this book, it didn't make people feel bright. The requirements mentioned in the book make me feel deja vu: be polite before speaking, take the initiative to ask questions you care about, be quiet when taking the bus, say hello when meeting the teacher, and finish your homework on time. Aren't these what our teachers often emphasize? There is no long sermon in the book, only some trivial details. When I really started to be interested in this book, I watched the movie "Hot Blood Teacher" adapted from this book with the students during the training in Bailuyuan. During the winter vacation, I read this book again, and I have to admire the author's persistent pursuit of career. As the saying goes: "There are no students who can't teach well, only teachers who can't teach well." Good students can only succeed under the inspiration, guidance and supervision of teachers. The author, Mr. Clark, started with the details and created an educational miracle by dealing with 55 educational details. As a successful educator, the author doesn't talk about how to teach, how to analyze textbooks and how to prepare lessons, but more like talking about how to treat people. Through vivid examples, let readers feel that what the author described is around us. The 55 details that create miracles described in the book are often overlooked. It is the details that create miracles and achieve brilliance. The book advocates that children should respect, tolerate and appreciate their children from an early age, understand their inner world, let them learn from life, gain confidence from encouragement, gain patience from tolerance, gain gratitude from praise, gain self-love from acceptance, gain action from appreciation, gain gratitude from sharing, gain truth from honesty, gain justice from fairness, and gain respect and respect from care.
What makes most teachers feel headache is how to deal with the problem of underachievers. They are very obedient. Although the quality of completion is not very high, at least the homework can be basically completed. For homework that is often delayed, we usually contact parents, on the one hand, let parents actively cooperate with the school's work, on the other hand, talk with underachievers. At first, we can get some results, but over time, parents get used to their children's "poor performance" at school.
Author Clark has also encountered such a situation: one of his "problem" students has not handed in his homework for many days, and he immediately thought of contacting his parents, but he couldn't. Once he finally got in touch, he told the students' parents the bad news straight away, hoping to get their support. Unexpectedly, the parents actually said, "My children are like this, so you can make do with it." This answer really made Clark laugh and cry. Perhaps Clark himself realized that communication with his parents needed to be improved, so when another student made a mistake, he changed his strategy. First of all, he patiently called the parent, but unlike the first student, he didn't "complain" directly to the parent, but told the parent how well his child behaved against his will during this period. After listening to this, the parent was naturally very happy, saying that the teacher must continue to be strict with the children and the parents will try their best to cooperate. Two days later, Clark called the parent again. This time, he told the parents about the child's bad behavior in the past two days. Of course, parents are very angry, immediately express their views, actively cooperate with the teacher's work, and go home to criticize and educate their children. After reading Clark's handling method, I really admire his ingenuity. Looking back at your usual way of education, you tell your parents directly if your children behave badly, but you seldom tell your parents if your children behave well.
I still remember when I was teaching grade five last year, I met a similar student. I called my parents and told them that their children often didn't do their homework. My parents told me directly. "I can't control her, I have given up on her, so don't control her, teacher." Then I called, but she never answered. If I let my parents know the good side of their children first, like Mr. Clark, maybe the results will be different.
Everything depends on human effort, and different ways to deal with the same thing will have different results. Excellence is taught. We should create an atmosphere of mutual respect, mutual trust and mutual support for children, stimulate their enthusiasm for learning, and let them enjoy the happiness and success of learning. Through our joint efforts, I believe our children will be better.
Experience and harvest of college students' winter vacation study (IV)
Ostrovsky, the author of How Steel was Tempered, was born in a worker's family and suffered from human sufferings. At the age of 20, he participated in the production of party member. He was completely paralyzed by overwork, and then he went blind. However, during his illness, he did not lose heart in unimaginable difficulties. Instead, I use pen as a weapon and take literary creation as my new job. Ostrovsky's hero Paul? Kochakin has also inspired millions of readers in Qian Qian.
Paul. Kochakin, a blind and paralyzed man, bravely fought against his illness with iron will and encouragement from relatives and friends in the face of many obstacles in life, and finally created the book Born in the Storm.
I was moved by Paul's indomitable spirit. Imagine if a person is blind, he can't see his friends around him and the colorful world. He can only live by his ears. How can a man of ordinary will do it? What's more, Paul is paralyzed in both legs and can't move his left hand? !
Paul is honest. As a teenager, he dared to teach the hooligans in the city because of justice.
Paul is very clever. In prison, he can seize the opportunity and easily let the ignorant enemy fall into the trap and escape from the clutches.
Paul is brave. He just joined the army and dashed forward with a knife, completely entering the spiritual realm of selfless killing.
Paul is strong and fighting. He miraculously survived with firm revolutionary beliefs after severe head burns, in order to continue the war of resistance.
Paul is great. He struggled with death several times and finally returned to his relatives and comrades with victory.
In learning, we should learn from Paul's spirit of not being afraid of difficulties and studying hard;
In life, we should learn from Paul's spirit of being diligent and enterprising and not afraid of setbacks;
In labor, we should learn from Paul's spirit of hard struggle and perseverance;
When we fail, we should follow Paul's example, analyze the reasons, summon up courage and start over;
When we succeed, we should follow Paul's example, be serious, modest and cautious, and continue to work hard;
"How Steel was Tempered" is a hymn of life. Heroes grow up in the storms of the years, and life sings in the torrent of the times. May life radiate nuclear energy forever, may life shine forever, may life become a magnetic field of friendship, and may life radiate emotional waves. The hero's soul is immortal, and the song of life never falls.
Experience and harvest of college students studying in winter vacation
In order to improve my quality better, during the winter vacation, I used the holiday to read more books and write some ideas. I hope I can gain something through reading, gain something, feel something, and let myself learn more from the book. Let yourself find your spiritual habitat and your "golden house" in today's increasingly commercialized city. In this holiday, what I have quite experienced is a novel "Childhood" written by Gorky. This is the first autobiographical novel trilogy written by Gorky based on his own experience. This novel reflects the writer's childhood growth experience from one side and depicts the picture of Russian social life at the end of 19. This book mainly tells the childhood life of Aletha (Gorky's real name) from the age of three to ten. The novel begins with "I" following my mother to find my grandfather, and ends with grandpa telling me to make a living in the "human world". Grandfather opened a dye house, but with the gradual decline of his family business, he became stingy, greedy, bossy and cruel, often beating his grandmother and children and ruthlessly exploiting workers. Once Alexei was beaten unconscious by him because he dyed a piece of cloth. Young Alisha was once beaten unconscious by him with a branch. He also secretly lends usury and even encourages his helpers to steal things. The two uncles are also rude and selfish philistines, arguing and fighting over property all day. In such a family full of cruelty and hatred, young Alisha realized the suffering and ugliness of human beings prematurely. Little Alesha was frightened by the scene of uncles quarreling and fighting over property. This scene truly reflects the heavy living conditions of the Russian lower class and criticizes the selfishness and cruelty of ordinary citizens.
However, even in such a terrible environment, there is warmth and light. This is another life that Alisha's grandmother and others lead. Grandma is kind, smart and capable, loves life, has patience with everyone and has a holy and broad mind. Like a bright lamp, she lit up Aletha's sensitive and lonely heart, and her influence on Aletha was as Gorky later wrote: "Before she came, I seemed to sleep in the dark, but as soon as she appeared, she woke me up and took me to a bright place. It is her selfless love for the world that has enriched me and filled me with a powerful force to cope with difficult life. " Grandma kept him alive with courage and confidence in the dark and dirty environment, and gradually grew into a strong, brave, upright and caring person.
Happy childhood is similar; Every unhappy childhood is unhappy in its own way. "Childhood" takes the life experience of the little hero Aletha at his grandfather's house as a clue, and depicts a group of vivid characters: a strict and violent grandfather, a kind grandmother, an uncle who likes to make trouble by drinking, a beautiful and melancholy mother, and a "little Z Gang" who can dance; There are stepfathers who lift their legs and kick their mothers, green old women who are called "grandma", "good things" tenants who are lonely and persistent in chemical experiments, uncle Peter, a thief who committed suicide, and a group of kind little tramps who make a living by playing straw sandals and stealing boards on snowy islands.
Little Alisha lives among this group of people with a fragile and sensitive childlike innocence, experiencing the ups and downs of life. Love enriched him and made him full of powerful strength to cope with difficult life; Suffering made him understand that most Russians, like children, like to tease and play with sadness, and they are not ashamed to be unfortunate people. It is from this footprint that a literary master came out and the world was graced by him. "Childhood" also opens a small window for us to understand a great nation seriously.
After reading this book, I not only read gripping stories and gained valuable spiritual food, but also learned the ingenious and concise narrative style of portraying characters. Gorky's life taught me how to face the crisis and challenge of life calmly and calmly; I have been baptized by my soul. My soul is like the clear sky after the rain, fresh, clear and blue. I believe that in my future life and study, I can also gain the courage to face it calmly.