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Li Muzi:
I have been in love with my girlfriend for four years. My girlfriend is neither beautiful nor ugly. She has a hot body, big breasts and a big ass. We lived together in college for three years and were inseparable.
When I was in love, my girlfriend took the initiative to chase me. After graduation, I lived in two places, one hour's drive away. She has a tax system and I work in a police station. I work easily and freely, but my salary is not high. I spend half a month with my girlfriend. Although I sometimes quarrel, it doesn't affect our feelings.
The emotional crisis appeared after my job transfer, and we started "husband and wife" on weekends. She often complains that I don't accompany her and want her. Later, her unit was going to elect a deputy director and she was nominated. Since then, her temperament has changed greatly, and when she is with me, she always feels that I am not helpful to her career. In order to elect her, she drank more and more fiercely. Every time I call her, I either have dinner with the leaders or sing and dance in the colorful places. So I'm angry. I'm afraid she will be used by those old goat. For this reason, we often quarrel, during which he broke up, because she always said that breaking up would naturally make up, so I didn't care too much.
The cold war lasted for two weeks. We didn't meet, but we had telephone contact. I'm going to ask for leave to spend time with her, but she doesn't want me to go, saying that she likes others. One was introduced by her mother, the other was a handsome guy who worked in a coal management station, and two officials chased her. She picked a suitable one among these people and told me not to look for her again. I ran to her dormitory in a rage and asked why. She said something to stimulate me. I slapped her in the face when I got excited. She ran out crying, and I hurried out to apologize. We slept together that night, and she said it was our last night.
From then on, I was depressed, and my parents asked me what was wrong. I said I broke up with my girlfriend. Her parents like her very much, and her relatives all say she is good. They want me to get my girlfriend back. I feel a little inferior, thinking that she must have found a powerful one for the future. Why does she have a crush on me? Her various performances to me show that she has become utilitarian, but I still got up the courage to do a lot of things that touched her. Finally, she promised to make up, but she still refused to let me stay in a hotel where she lived or travel together on weekends.
Once we were in a hotel, when she was packing, she took out a 35,000-yuan fixed passbook with the name of XX written on it. XX is a worker and gambler in his unit. He loses nine times and wins one, and the brand is poor. If she loses, she will smash the table and bench. I asked her who the money belonged to, and she told me that she couldn't find her ID card when she went to deposit it, and she used XX's ID card to deposit it. Because XX used to be the person she hated most. She is uneducated, uneducated, unreasonable and poor in business, and often bullies her. Now her girlfriend uses his name to save money. There must be something wrong. So I pulled up XX's phone records and text messages through the relationship, and where they were signed in. Girlfriends are more active. Judging from the telephone conversation, they have been having an affair for three months. By the way, XX has a wife and children. Her wife works in a hospital and only gets together on weekends.
I think my girlfriend is dirty and slutty. She has sex with XX from Monday to Thursday, and then comes to me for sex on Friday and Saturday. It's disgusting to think about it. I endured it for two weeks, reminding her of the danger of mistress intentionally or unintentionally, but she just wouldn't listen. Maybe she's addicted to cheating. Last week, when we stayed in a hotel, I told my girlfriend the fact that she was having an affair with XX. At first, she denied it and lost her temper with me. Then I said I looked them up. She finally admitted it and cried and told me that she met the wrong person at the wrong time and did something wrong. She also said that their love was pure and she didn't want to hurt XX's family.
What I don't understand is that cheating mistresses can usually find good men. How could she be with such a person? Not only can't help her, but she also posts it backwards, which is inversely proportional to her power to be an official. Besides, I have a good sex life.
She promised me that she would never cheat again, and told me not to hurt XX's family and not to tell her parents. I know they will go out together again. I want her to live a normal life, and I want her parents to know her filth. My friend said I was getting back at her, and I don't know if it was.
Reply to the blogger:
I can see that you care about this relationship, but you don't know that some women can't stand loneliness. It is true that for your girlfriend, you know that cheating with a married man can't bring you results, but it is after being bullied by him many times that you have an extra feeling. Let's just call this feeling "mean". The principle is: beating is pro, scolding is love.
Over the years, you and your girlfriend have basically maintained a high-density contact. Your sudden busyness at work made her a little uncomfortable. Although he understands you, he may not be able to accept the fact of being left out. It was also in this state that she had sex with a man she hated very much. Once, she lied that she didn't love you because a married rogue man conquered him in bed. I don't know how to conquer her, or that man has been longer than you.
I can't say that you are not strong enough, but unfortunately you met a master in bed fighting, and your girlfriend is a typical woman, so you have to admit it. I don't know if you are angry from embarrassment, attached to your feelings for four years, or unwilling to be cuckolded. You have a little desire to retaliate against your girlfriend, but what will be left for you after revenge, and you will feel uncomfortable at that time.
Everyone has his own understanding of love. Now that it has been lost, the best way to get rid of it is to pay less attention. After all, you are excellent, so why hang yourself from a tree? For you, your girlfriend, or exactly your ex-girlfriend, you can find that she is willing to degenerate, but can't a man's wife or her colleagues find out? You should remember that an unmarried woman can't be a mistress all her life, but one day she will be a wife, or she will turn on her own initiative, or she will be caught in bed. At least you shouldn't be a snitch. If you really can't swallow this grievance, you can give the man's wife a hint anonymously. You'd rather let others catch the rape, and you don't even stand up, because if things get too big, your face may not be right. Besides, the only thing you can do now is to get rid of her, even if she cries for you to make up, don't look back.