1, learn to respect and cherish yourself:
Everyone knows that "self" is the most important thing, but there are always some people who don't really respect and cherish themselves. They can like friends, knowledge and nature, but they don't like themselves. College students should accept everything about themselves, good and bad, successful and failed. We should cultivate a sense of value, pride, happiness and satisfaction for ourselves.
2. Learn to control yourself:
Self-control is the fundamental way for college students to improve their self-awareness and self-perfection. Many college students have high expectations of themselves, but because they don't have enough self-control ability and will, they can't stand setbacks and blows and can't realize their self-ideals. And those college students who feel inferior and hurt themselves deviate from the track of improving their self-awareness because they can't control their bad emotions.
3, exercise all aspects of ability:
College students should pay close attention to the development trend of society and improve their abilities in all aspects, especially their learning ability. No matter what position you go to in any industry in the future, you can learn and remember extensively, stimulate your interest in work and make continuous progress. We should also cultivate a correct outlook on life and be strict in self-discipline. Finally, we should improve our social skills and make more friends.
4. Establish good and stable interpersonal relationships:
People are social animals and need emotional acceptance and support from others, as well as care and love from others. Moreover, interpersonal relationship is the direct supporting factor of self-concept and self-values. People not only need to benefit from others, but also need to benefit from others, love others and benefit others.
When people find that they have provided substantial help to others, they will gain great self-satisfaction. Those who completely ignore social evaluation and social responsibility, regard themselves as lofty and narcissistic, will never get real opportunities for self-satisfaction and self-improvement.
5. Expand your life experience and create opportunities for self-discovery:
If you expand your life experience as much as possible and constantly enrich the new contents of your psychological world, you will continue to extend yourself and develop your self-confidence and self-worth. A rich self will improve our ability to cope with changes in the surrounding environment and build up a sense of self-competence. We should pay more attention to the creation of self-development
The establishment of new experience is a process for a person to cope with and grasp the world. In this process, people will discover many abilities and characteristics that they have never discovered and could not believe before. Therefore, the process of establishing new experiences is essentially a process of self-discovery, self-understanding and self-development, which will enable people to achieve better self-confidence and self-acceptance.